Australian Yoga Journal — July 2017

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How to find happiness, even in your darkest hour.


By Richard Miller, PhD


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LIKE THE ABILITY TO learn a language or
love another human being, the ability to
feel joy is something we’re all born with.
And perhaps surprisingly, we can feel
joy independent of whatever else we’re
experiencing, even amidst intense
physical or psychological pain and
suffering, according to psychology
research. That said, many of us still
believe that joy isn’t innate—that it only
comes with possessing a specific item or
achieving a particular outcome. So we
keep searching for joy through objects,
relationships, and experiences, which
prevents us from realising that this
essential emotion is already within us,
patiently waiting to be experienced.
Unfortunately, when you resist or
deny feelings of joy, your life and
relationships can lose their meaning and
value. For instance, when you feel you’re
not living life fully, or when you’re
feeling bitter or jealous about that which
others have and you don’t, these feelings
can overshadow your ability to feel your
innate joy. This happened to me in my
early 2os, when I fell into a depression
upon moving to a new city. I failed to
find employment and felt isolated and
alone. I lost touch with my intrinsic
sense of joy as I floundered in feelings
of confusion and grief, and slid into a
downward spiral, losing all sense of
purpose.
That’s when I discovered that
meditation could unearth my innate,

unchanging joy, no matter what my
circumstances. In the midst of my
depression, I found my way into a
course on yoga. At the end of the
first class, during meditation, joy
unexpectedly flooded my body. I
suddenly felt reconnected to myself and
the universe, and regained my sense of
purpose and meaning. I walked home
that evening feeling renewed, with a
burning desire to understand what had
just happened to me.
Since then, I’ve come to see, through
both my personal practice of meditation
and reading countless research studies
on neuroscience, how meditation can
help us experience joy at any time. You
see, meditation deactivates your brain’s
default network, which otherwise keeps
you stuck in patterns of negative
emotions and obsessive thoughts, and it
activates your brain’s executive,
attention, and defocusing networks,
which help you open to joy and also new
possibilities of insight.

Joy is good medicine
Since ancient times, joy has been
recognised as a powerful medicine.
For instance, in Ancient Greece,
hospitals were built near amphitheaters
so patients could easily attend comedies
prescribed to promote healing. One of
the most well-known cases of joy as
good medicine occurred when the writer
and peace activist Norman Cousins,

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