29
february 2017
yogajournal.com
WITHIN
ORAL BROWN, a yoga teacher and
licensed mental-health counselor
in Rhode Island, uses the word
“co-dependent” to describe her previous
romantic relationship, which lasted more
than a decade. But at the time, she didn’t
realize she was in such a pattern of over-
giving that she was losing herself. While
her yoga practice helped shine a light on
this tendency, Brown says studying the
Enneagram—a four-decade-old personal-
ity-assessment system—also revealed that
it was time to move on from the relationship.
“The Enneagram enabled me to really see
my core patterns,” says Brown, “ultimately
helping me meet my needs in a healthier,
more conscious way than ever before.”
The name Enneagram stems from the
Greek words ennea, a prefi x for “nine,” and
gramma, meaning “to draw.” The system’s
icon is a nine-pointed star, each point rep-
resenting a distinct personality type. Most
Enneagram experts agree we are all born
with one dominant personality type (or
number), which largely determines how we
learn to adapt to our environment and the
people in it. The Enneagram surfaced in the
United States in the 1 97os, riding the tails of
the human-potential movement (think ther-
apy, encounter groups, and primal scream).
Since then, therapists, spiritual teachers,
coaches, and even businesses have used the
Enneagram as a tool to stoke authenticity,
expose core motivations, and ultimately
reduce interpersonal confl ict. How can a
simple personality test do all this?
“There’s resistance to change within all
of us, and the Enneagram describes what
that resistance is about for each of us,” says
Peter O’Hanrahan, a leading international
Enneagram teacher and trainer. “As a result,
this system gives you very clear informa-
tion about what you need to work on.” To
wit, when Brown learned more about her
Enneagram number—a Two—she was bet-
ter able to see her core pattern of giving to
others to feel good about herself, and that
realization gave her a choice: do something
about her blind spots, or ignore them. She
chose to act. “I left my partner, and I found
more of my own identity in my yoga teach-
ing,” says Brown. “I was more aligned with
my truer purpose and nature.”
Susan Piver, author of the meditation
primer Start Here Now and a meditation
teacher who leads retreats on the Ennea-
gram, says the kind of alignment Brown
experienced is what yoga is about at its core.
“The Enneagram will tell us what we cannot
see about ourselves—our ways of being that
stem from our most wounded selves, which
create confusion as a result,” says Piver. And
if you’re willing to look at these wounds,
which are almost always rooted in unexam-
ined pain, you can start to chart a new, more
authentic course forward, she says. “At a
certain point—especially if you’re on a
spiritual path—you have to do this,” Piver
says. Read on to fi nd out how.
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In an ideal world, we’d always think and act from a place of wisdom and
oneness. But in the real world, ingrained patterns and personality traits can
get in the way. Enter the Enneagram, a personality assessment that can help
you see what’s keeping you from realizing your most authentic, highest
self. Here’s how to use it, along with your yoga practice, to change course.
Story by Elizabeth Marglin | Photography by Jeff Nelson
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