- Always have your escort display list
guests’ names categorized alpha-
betically and not by table. - If you have long tables for guests,
place cards so that couples and
friends don’t get split up are helpful. - Always make sure you have the cor-
rect number of bartenders. Most
people follow the one bartender for
every 50 guests rule of thumb, but
adding one or two more depend-
ing on your headcount can be
beneficial and will keep your guests
happy, especially at the beginning
of your affair. We never want to
have anyone waiting for a drink,
let alone standing in long lines. - The biggest rush to the bar is
directly after the ceremony as
everyone enters cocktail hour.
We always recommend trayed
and passed drinks (champagne
is a crowd pleaser) so that guests
can grab a drink and the bar won’t
be completely bombarded. - When it comes to speeches, your
guests are most likely hungry and
ready to celebrate and mingle, so
capping out at three speeches is
the best plan. A welcome from
the parents along with the Maid
of Honor and Best Man is a great
combination. Anyone else can
talk at the rehearsal dinner. - Urge those giving speeches not
to talk longer than two or three
minutes (knowing they’ll creep
up to five minutes). Anything past
that can interrupt dinner service
and getting everyone on the dance
floor. As planners, it’s so hard to
see one speech carry on for over
10 minutes—we know the bride
and groom just want to get on the
dance floor, and long speeches
truly do detract from that.
Clockwise from top: Caskata arbor blue
collection at White Glove Rentals. Kennedy
collection with Catalina charger at Pretty
Little Wedding Co. The Stella collection at
Pretty Little Wedding Co. Royal Emblem at
Rentals to Remember. The Aegean from
Something Vintage Rentals.
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gold and black flatware: Something Vintage Rentals. Linen: Table Toppers.
BREAKING BREAD
THE DOs AND DON’Ts
of Wedding Receptions
Dish It Out
Tabletop possibilities
are as varied as food
choices these days—
from simple and elegant
to bold and modern.
The options are
endless.
- Lighting can make or break an
event. If you’ve spent countless
hours and a large portion of your
budget on floral and reception
design, you will definitely want
lighting so that it doesn’t get
lost. Uplighting and pinspotting
are very important to not only
highlight the tables but also cre-
ate the vibe you are going for. - Don’t forget about the guest experi-
ence. If you’re having an outdoor
element or your reception is in a
tent, then it’s important to think of
the weather and plan for the worst.
If it’s fall, having heaters—or at least
having them on reserve—is impera-
tive. Warm drinks and offering blan-
kets/shawls to keep guests warm is
also a nice touch. If it’s in the middle
of July, make sure you have fans and
ice-cold beverages available. - Have a Plan B. We always have a
backup plan, whether it’s moving
inside or bringing in a tent. And defi-
nitely make sure the design for the A
option can be repurposed for Plan B.
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