ANSWERING TOUGH QUESTIONS / 359Responding to questions
PROBLEM SOLUTION EXAMPLE
“So what you’re saying is there’s been
a lack of progress—is that right?”“I want to be sure I understand the
question. Are you asking why we
haven’t made progress?”“You’re right about this approach carrying
some risk, but we can mitigate that risk by
the way we handle this.”“I understand your frustration. This has
indeed been a long process. We’d all like
to move forward now and get on with
implementation.”“I hear your concern, but let me respectfully
disagree with your statement. Here’s why.”“That’s a good question. I don’t have
the answer for it. Here’s what I can
tell you though...”“Let me ask you how you would answer
that?” or “Can you clarify why you’re asking
that question?”“We can certainly discuss it after
the session.”Long-
winded or
unfocused
questionsSceptical
or hostile
feedbackQuestions
that stumpPose the
question
differentlyAsk for
clarificationValidate the
concernEmpathize
with the
concernStand firmKeep your coolReturn the
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