MAKING CONCESSIONS / 407
ENABLING RECIPROCITY
Label the concessions you make as ones that are costly to you and then
reduce your value. This sets up the expectation that you will receive a
concession in return, implying value for value.
USING CONTINGENCY
If you suspect that your concession will not be reciprocated, offer a
concession that is contingent upon the other party providing a concession in
return. For example: “I will be willing to extend the terms of payment to 45
days if you will increase your order by 500 items.”
SETTING BOUNDARIES
Some negotiators put the deal at risk by asking for too much. Set boundaries
for the other party by being clear and precise about what you can concede and
what you absolutely cannot.
SETTING RULES
Sometimes negotiators make final concessions but then withdraw them or
make them contingent on receiving a new concession. Set a clear rule that a
concession cannot be withdrawn, unless it was explicitly offered as a tentative
or conditional concession.
SPOTTING DEAL BREAKERS
Some concessions are deal breakers: without them, your counterpart will
walk away from the negotiation table. Try to distinguish these from value-
enhancing concessions, which are demands that will get a better deal, but if
not provided, would not result in the other party abandoning the negotiations.
Making and interpreting concessions
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