Communication Between Cultures

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New inmates quickly learn the culture of prison by finding the correct ways to use
space. They soon discover how and when to enter another cell, what part of the exer-
cise yard they can visit, how reduction of a person’s space is a form of punishment,
and that they must form lines for nearly all activities.
Women and men also use space differently. For example, women normally“estab-
lish closer proximity to others”than do men.^131 Years of research have also revealed
other gender differences in the use of space: (1) men claim more personal space than
women, (2) women manifest less discomfort than men when confronted with a small
amount of space, (3) men seem to approach females more closely than females who
move toward men, (4) women, when given the opportunity, seek to interact at a
closer distance than do men, and (5) men more frequently walk in front of their
female partner than vice versa.^132 Spatial distance is also a variable when interacting
with members of the deaf culture. When using ASL, it is necessary for the person
signing to sit far enough away from the other person so that they can be seen. It
would not be uncommon for two signers to sit across from one another at a distance
that hearing people might perceive as impersonal.^133

Seating


As is the case with many features of nonverbal communication, seating arrangements
send both inconspicuous and obvious messages. The producing of a very subtle mes-
sage could be witnessed at an important diplomatic meeting between the Turkish
ambassador and his counterpart from Israel. The Turkish representative was extremely
distressed that he was asked to sit on a sofa that was lower than the one occupied by
the Israeli officials. His anger was so intense that he refused to allow the media to
take a picture of the meeting since he felt it humiliated him and his country. This
real-life example vividly demonstrates that seating arrangements can be a powerful

The way people use
space, including how
they arrange
themselves in a group,
is often rooted in their
culture.

Curt Carnemark/World Bank Group

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