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men and women.”
Alison Mary Western was born
April 11, 1927, in Adelaide, Aus-
tralia, and grew up on her fam-
ily’s fruit farm.
She graduated from the Uni-
versity of Adelaide in 1947 and
married her economics profes-
sor, Bruce Mansfield Cheek. They
settled in the Washington area
when he took a job with the
World Bank.
At St. Alban’s in Annandale,
the parish priest, John R. Frizzell
Jr., encouraged Alison Cheek’s
budding interest in theology. She
received a master of divinity
from the Virginia Theological
Seminary in 1969.
In addition to her duties at St.
Stephen, Rev. Cheek had a pasto-
ral counseling practice. After her
husband died in 1977, she became
a priest at a church in Philadel-
phia. She later helped advance
the movement for female priests
in Australia and moved to Cam-
bridge, Mass., where she received
a doctorate in ministry from the
Episcopal Divinity School in 1990
and directed its program in femi-
nist liberation studies.
In 1996, she became a counsel-
or and teacher at the Greenfire
Community and Retreat Center
in Tenants Harbor, Maine, where
she also served as a priest. She
retired in 2013 and moved to
North Carolina.
Survivors include four chil-
dren, Bruce Malcolm Cheek of
Lexington, Ky., Jonathan Cheek
of Wellesley, Mass., Timothy
Cheek of Vancouver, B.C., and
Bronwen Cheek of Santa Fe,
N.M.; five grandchildren; and
four great-grandchildren.
In 2014, looking back on the
40th anniversary of her ordina-
tion, Rev. Cheek said that she
“sort of risked everything” in her
quest to become a priest.
“I would do it again,” she said.
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ders.
“It was very hard, Sunday after
Sunday, to do my work at the
altar as a deacon in the church
which oppresses me,” Rev. Cheek
said at his trial.
Wendt was admonished, but in
an act of defiance he hired Rev.
Cheek as an assistant pastor at
St. Stephen. As other women
became ordained as “irregular”
priests, the Episcopal Church as
a whole became embroiled in a
fierce internal battle. Rev. Cheek
and the other members of the
Philadelphia 11 were featured on
the cover of Time magazine in
January 1976 as “Women of the
Year.”
“I think the visual image of a
woman behind the altar is im-
portant,” Rev. Cheek told the
Houston Chronicle in 2006. “I
don’t like to generalize, but I
think we bring a more human
touch, and that can create a
different atmosphere.”
In September 1976, the govern-
ing bodies of the Episcopal
Church voted to approve women
as ordained members of the cler-
gy. Liberal elements of the faith
were jubilant, but some con-
servative factions broke away
from the church for good.
In the years since Rev. Cheek
first stood before a congregation
in Washington, women have en-
tered the Episcopal priesthood in
increasing numbers and now
make up close to half of the
church’s clergy.
“Every woman in a leadership
position in the Episcopal Church
owes our vocation and freedom
to those very strong women,”
Mariann Edgar Budde, who is the
first woman to serve as bishop of
the Episcopal Diocese of Wash-
ington, said in an interview. “It’s
almost impossible for us to imag-
ine the costs and their scars. This
was hard. We stand on their
shoulders, every single one of us,

the female priests’ ordinations
thrown out as illegal under can-
on law. The women successfully
argued that their ordinations
were “irregular” but not illegal.
Many of the 11, including Rev.
Cheek, took up pastoral duties.
When Rev. Cheek was sched-
uled to celebrate the Eucharist at
St. Stephen and the Incarnation
Episcopal Church in Washing-
ton, the church’s rector, William
A. Wendt, was forced to cancel
the service on orders from his
bishop, William F. Creighton.
Later, on Nov. 10, 1974, Wendt
and Rev. Cheek tested the au-

thorities again. Wearing a cleri-
cal collar and vestments, Rev.
Cheek performed Communion at
Wendt’s church — the first time
any female priest had conducted
the sacrament in an Episcopal
sanctuary. A report in The Post
noted that the service “ranged
from solemn prayer to joyous
hugs and bursts of spontaneous
applause.”
The event led to two years of
upheaval and soul-searching in
the Episcopal Church. Bishop
Creighton, who supported the
ordination of women, took ac-
tion after 18 priests signed a
letter of complaint. Wendt was
tried by an ecclesiastical court
for disobeying the bishop’s or-

BY MATT SCHUDEL

The Rev. Alison Cheek, who
battled canon law and centuries-
old traditions to become one of
the first female priests in the
Episcopal Church and in 1974
was the first woman to adminis-
ter the sacrament of Communion
in an Episcopal parish, died
Sept. 1 at an assisted-living facili-
ty in Brevard, N.C. She was 92.
The death was confirmed by a
son, Timothy Cheek, who said he
did not know the exact cause.
Rev. Cheek, who was raised as
a Methodist in Australia, moved
with her family to Northern Vir-
ginia in 1957 and began attend-
ing St. Alban’s Episcopal Church
in Annandale because it was the
closest church to her home.
She became increasingly inter-
ested in theology and began to
study at the Virginia Theological
Seminary in Alexandria while
raising her four children. She
became a deacon in 1972 and two
years later was one of 11 women
ordained by three retired bishops
who supported the cause of wom-
en in the priesthood. Because the
ceremony took place in Philadel-
phia, they became known as the
“Philadelphia 11.”
They faced strong opposition
from traditionalists. At the time,
the Episcopal Church allowed
only men to be ordained, and the
hierarchy of the church consid-
ered Rev. Cheek and the other
female priests to be renegades.
“At our ordinations, when the
time was set aside for objec-
tions,” Rev. Cheek told The Wash-
ington Post in 1976, one priest
said, “ ‘These women can offer up
nothing but the sight and smell
of perversion.’ So that makes me
see how very thin is the veneer of
civilization over this fear of wom-
en’s sexuality.”
In a prolonged battle, the
church hierarchy sought to have


ALISON CHEEK, 92


Episcopal priest made history in D.C.


HARRY NALTEHAYAN/THE WASHINGTON POST

The Rev. Alison Cheek, alongside the Rev. William A. Wendt, the rector at St. Stephen and the Incarnation Episcopal Church in
Washington, leads Communion at the parish in 1974. It was the first time a female priest had led such a service in the Episcopal Church.


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Jim Langer, a Pro Football Hall
of Fame center who was literally in
the middle of the Miami Dolphins’
1972 perfect season, died Aug. 29
at a hospital in Coon Rapids,
Minn. He was 71.
The cause was a heart ailment,
said his wife, Linda Langer.
Mr. Langer was a first-year
starter and played every offensive
down for the NFL’s only unbeaten,
untied team that went 17-0. The
following year he helped the Dol-
phins repeat as Super Bowl cham-
pions, and began a stretch of six
consecutive Pro Bowl seasons for
Miami while playing in 128 games
in a row.
James John Langer was born in
Little Falls, Minn., on May 16,
1948, and grew up in Royalton,


Minn.
He played linebacker at South
Dakota State University and went
undrafted. He signed with Cleve-
land as a rookie in 1970 but was
cut, joined the Dolphins and made
the team as a center in coach Don
Shula’s first season with Miami.
Mr. Langer was voted the Dol-
phins’ most valuable player in
1975 and played in the NFL until
1981, spending his final two sea-
sons with the Minnesota Vikings.
A four-time all-pro choice, he was
inducted into the Hall of Fame in
his first year of eligibility in 1987.
Mr. Langer, a resident of Ram-
sey, Minn., is survived by his wife
and four children, according to
the Minneapolis Star Tribune.
His perfect season teammate
Nick Buoniconti, another Hall of
Famer, died a month ago. His long-

time Dolphins roommate, guard
Bob Kuechenberg, died in Janu-
ary.
In 2007, Kuechenberg recalled a
conversation he and Mr. Langer
had 10 weeks into the 1972 season.

“I told Langer, ‘Obviously we’re
going to have to lose a game.’
“ ‘I suppose,’ he said.
“ ‘When?’ I said.
“ ‘Not this week,’ was the only
answer.”

JIM LANGER, 71


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  1. In 1975, he was voted the team’s most valuable player.


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we bring a more


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The Rev. Alison Cheek

IN MEMORIAM


LADDIEJOYNER
In Loving Memory
March 8, 1935 September 6, 2004
15 years have passed since the Lord called you
home. Years may wipe out many things, but
memories of your love, smile, happy times and
kindness still remain in our hearts, and your
legacy lives on.
Love,Almeade, Eric, Derick, and Angela

JOYNER


DEATH NOTICE


MAURICE A. BANKS, PGWP
Members of Prince Hall Chapter
#5, are notified of the passing of
our beloved Past Grand Worthy
Patron, Maurice A. Banks. On Sat-
urday, September 7, viewing 10
a.m., service 11 a.m., at First Bap-
tist Church of Deanwood, 1008 45th St., NE,
Washington, DC 20019. No OES Service.
Yolanda Edwards-Brown,W.M.
John Brevard, IV,W.P.
Dorothy D. Kittrell, Secy.

BANKS


MAURICE A. BANKS, JR. (Age 89)
On August 28, 2019, Maurice peacefully went
home to be with the Lord. He is survived by
his wife of 63 years, Yvonne; one daughter,
Orne and two sons, Maurice III and Layard; six
grandchildren, two great-grandsons, nieces,
nephews, cousins and friends. The family will
receive friends on Saturday, September 7, 2019
at the First Baptist Church of Deanwood, 1008
45th St. NE, Washington, DC from 10 a.m. until
time of funeral service at 11 a.m. Interment
Harmony Memorial Cemetery, Landover, MD.
Arrangements by STRICKLAND FUNERAL SER-
VICES.
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BANKS


MATHEW JUSTICE BOWYER
Of Roanoke, Virginia passed peacefully, at
the age of 93 years old, on September 4,
2019, after a brief illness.
“Mat” was born on February 9, 1926 in Cov-
ington, Virginia to the late Mathew Wilson
and Gertrude Ellen (Tolley) Bowyer. Mat
Bowyer proudly served in the U.S. Army
in World War II, stationed first in the Philip-
pines and then in Japan. After serving in
the Army, Mat worked in the U.S. Postal
Service at National Airport and then at
Dulles Airport. After retiring from the
Postal Service, Mat worked as a real estate
agent in Northern Virginia, wrote several
books, including a history of the U.S. Postal
Service titled“They Carried the Mail”, wrote
a column in Linn’s Stamp News, and other
freelance articles.
Mathew Bowyer is survived by his loving
wife of 67 years, Virginia Anne (Austin)
Bowyer, a son, Kevin Wilson Bowyer, daugh-
ter-in-law, Susan Jane (Suddath) Bowyer,
two grandsons, Mathew Ross Bowyer and
James Wilson Bowyer, all of South Bend,
Indiana, a daughter, Karen Bowyer-Tread-
way and son-in-law, Carver Treadway of
Vinton, Virginia, sister, Mabel (Jack) Hice
of South Carolina, and sister-in-law, Hazel
Austin of South Carolina.
The family will have a private burial.
In lieu of flowers, the family urges a dona-
tion to your local Alzheimer's Association.
Arrangements by Loving Funeral Home;
http://www.lovingfuneralhome1913.com

BOWYER


DANIEL O. CAREY (Age 91)
It is with regret that we notify
the members of Steamfitters
Local 602 of the death of Retired
Brother Daniel O Carey. Friends
may call at Collins Funeral Home,
500 University Boulevard West,
Silver Spring, MD on Sunday, Sep-
tember 8, 2019 from 2 to 4 p.m. Services will
be held on Monday, September 9, 2019 at 11
a.m., at Holy Cross Church, 4900 Strathmore
Avenue, Garrett Park, MD. Notice #1725.
Daniel W. Loveless, F.S.T.

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JUNE ROSE COVINGTON
Passed away on September 2, 2019 in
Raleigh, North Carolina. June was born in
Brooklyn, New York to William and Mary
Campbell July 18, 1932.
She is survived by her four children, 13
grandchildren and 13 great-grandchildren.
She was a lovely, amazing woman who
took joy in helping others and her family.
The funeral mass will be 11 a.m. on Sat-
urday, September 7 at St. Leo the Great
Catholic Church, 3700 Old Lee highway
Fairfax,Virginia 22030.

COVINGTON


WILLIAM MICHAEL DANTE
On Friday, August 16, 2019, of Alexandria,
VA. Son of the late Lee and Katherine Dante;
brother of Katherine J. Dante, Richard J. Dante,
Lee G. Dante, and the late Mary Lee Dante
and Robert Dante. Also survived by many
nieces and nephews. Services will be held at
St. Michael's Church, Annandale, Virginia, on
Friday, September 6. Following the service,
relatives and friends may call at Demaine
Funeral Home, Springfield, Virginia, and again
on Saturday, September 7, from 2 to 4 p.m.

DANTE


GLORIA LOUISE DAVIS
On August 23, 2019. She leaves cherished
memories to her son, James Davis; sister,
Nettie LaMaster; niece, Angela Watts; two
nephews, Jason and Jared and a host of
other family and friends. Family will receive
friends on Saturday, September 7, 2019 at
St. Paul Community Church, 14730 Sugar-
land Lane, Poolesville, MD from 10 a.m.
until service at 11 a.m. Interment Church
Cemetery. Entrusted to Snowden Funeral
Home.
http://www.snowdencares.com

DAVIS


JOHN PAUL DOYLE, JR.
LTC USA (Ret.), USMA ‘55
On Wednesday, August 28, 2019 of Ft.
Belvoir, VA. Loving husband of the late
Marilyn Trewhella Doyle. He is survived
by his children, John Doyle, Lauren Doyle
Wilkinson and Patrick Doyle; grandchildren,
John Doyle, Lindsy Doyle, and Brenden
Doyle (John), Madeline Doyle and Noah
Doyle (Patrick) and Donald Wilkinson and
Ian Wilkinson (Lauren); great-grandchild,
Riley Doyle (Brenden); daughter-in-law,
Mary Doyle and son-in-law, Donald Wilkin-
son.
A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will
be held at Ft. Myer Old Post Chapel with
inurnment following in Arlington National
Cemetery at a later day. In lieu of flowers,
memorial contributions may be made to
The Fisher House Foundation, 12300 Twin-
brook Pkwy. #410 Rockville, MD 20852
http://www.fisherhouse.org
Please view the family guestbook online at
http://www.fairfaxmemorialfuneralhome.com

DOYLE


JAMES LEE FLEISHELL
Captain USCG (Ret.)
September 23, 1927 - August 7, 2019
James Lee Fleishell, a Washington, DC native,
died peacefully at his home in Chester, CT,
surrounded by family. He was 91 years old. He
is survived by his wife, the former Norma De-
veau, to whom he had been married for 68
years, his four children, James of East Lyme,
CT, Thomas of Montville, NJ, Anne Kelly (John)
of Wilton, CT and Mary Lee Tucker (John) of
Med- field, MA, and his five grandchildren,
Christopher and James Kelly, Connor Fleishell
and Ellen and Annie Tucker. He is predeceased
by his brother, William Fleishell, a long-time
District res ident, and his sister, Jean Hammer.
Jim was born at Sibley Memorial Hospital to
William Sheldon Fleishell and Anna Mae Shank.
He was raised in the Brightwood area of the
District and attended St. John’s College High
School. Jim graduated from the U.S. Coast
Guard Academy in 1950, and later received a
Master’s de- gree in Public Administration from
George Washington University. Jim served for
30 years as a Coast Guard officer in various
overseas and domestic assignments, including
command of two Coast Guard cutters, USS
Cartigan (Panama City, FL) and USS Mackinac
(Staten Island, NY). Following his sea tours, he
enjoyed major shore commands as Comman-
der, Group Long Island Sound, Commander,
Group New York, and Captain of the Port of
New York. As Captain of the Port, Jim directed
the Coast Guard’s operational forces during
the nation’s 1976 Bicentennial celebration in
New York harbor, which included coordination
and oversight of the celebration’s centerpiece,
Operation Sail, a procession of “tall ships”
representing more than a dozen coun- tries.
Upon retirement from the Coast Guard in
1980, Jim worked for the Port Authority of
New York and New Jersey, serving as the
Executive Director of the New York Harbor
Festival. He later joined General Dynamics in
their Electric Boat Division in New London,
working in their Trident Training Facility Con-
struction and Support Program, retiring fully in
1991.
His passing will leave his family and many
friends yearning for his quick wit, his presence,
his love and his passion for learning.
Calling hours and funeral services are available
at:
https://www.fultontherouxnewlondon.com
Donations in Jim’s memory may be made to the
US Coast Guard Academy Alumni Association,
47 Mohegan Ave, New London, CT 06320 or
https://www.cgaalumni.org.

FLEISHELL

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