he still had the ring, nudging me out the door with the observation that if I spent any more time in front of the mirror it
wouldn’t matter how I looked because we were sure to be late.
Not that the changes in him are without tension. He’s prone to make lengthy pronouncements on the need for the
black man to liberate himself from the poisoning influences of European culture, and scolds Auma for what he calls her
European ways. The words he speaks are not fully his own, and in his transition he can sometimes sound stilted and
dogmatic. But the magic of his laughter remains, and we can disagree without rancor. His conversion has given him
solid ground to stand on, a pride in his place in the world. From that base I see his confidence building; he begins to
venture out and ask harder questions; he starts to slough off the formulas and slogans and decides what works best for
him. He can’t help himself in this process, for his heart is too generous and full of good humor, his attitude toward
people too gentle and forgiving, to find simple solutions to the puzzle of being a black man.
Toward the end of the wedding, I watched him grinning widely for the video camera, his long arms draped over the
shoulders of my mother and Toot, whose heads barely reached the height of his chest. “Eh, brother,” he said to me as I
walked up to the three of them. “It looks like I have two new mothers now.” Toot patted him on the back. “And we
have a new son,” she said, although when she tried to say “Abongo” her Kansas tongue mangled it hopelessly. My
mother’s chin started to tremble again, and Abongo lifted up his glass of fruit punch for a toast.
“To those who are not here with us,” he said.
“And to a happy ending,” I said.
We dribbled our drinks onto the checkered-tile floor. And for that moment, at least, I felt like the luckiest man alive.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
BARACK OBAMA is the junior U.S. senator from Illinois. He began his career as a community organizer in some of
Chicago’s poorest communities and then attended Harvard Law School, where he was elected the first African-
American president of the Harvard Law Review. In 1992, he directed Illinois Project VOTE, which registered 150,000
new voters. From 1997 to 2004, he served as a three-term state senator from Chicago’s South Side. In addition to his
legislative duties, he has been a senior lecturer in constitutional law at the University of Chicago Law School, practiced
civil rights law, and served on the board of directors of various charitable organizations.
Obama lives in Chicago’s Hyde Park neighborhood with his wife, Michelle, and daughters, Malia and Sasha.
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