The Origins of Happiness

(Elliott) #1
Social Norms and Institutions

showed more neural activity in the reward centers of the


brain.^17


Social Capital


Different from ethical norms are the social structures that


give people a sense of belonging, and of having others


they can rely on for support. Time use studies show that,


apart from sex, what people most enjoy is socializing with


friends^18 — there is little worse than being friendless.


Figure 8.1 illustrates the huge importance of this di-


mension of life— of having people to rely on. Many great


books have been written on such “social capital,”^19 and the


importance of participation in civil society organizations. It


may be enough here to make the key distinction between


“bonding capital” and “bridging capital.” Bonding capital


is what unites like- minded people having similar cultures,


experience, and interests, so that they know what to expect


from each other. This is reflected, partly at least, in the so-


cial support variable in Table 8.1, which suggests that when


everyone has someone to rely on (compared with no one),


life- satisfaction rises by 2 whole points.


But in any multicultural or multiclass society there is


something else that is also critical. That is bridging capi-


tal. In most societies, people who belong to minorities, in-


cluding ethnic minorities and migrants, are on average less


happy than the rest of the community.^20 One reason why


migrants are unhappy is of course that they are separated


from many of their family and friends— they lack bonding


capital. But too often they are also second- class citizens in


the place they have moved to— they lack bridges.

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