The Origins of Happiness

(Elliott) #1
Parenting and Parents’ Mental Health

mother is depressed after you are born, you are x percent


more likely to grow up depressed (cet. par.). And suppose


we could prevent your mother’s depression, before you were


born. As a result of this intervention, you would indeed


have a better childhood. But you would still share your moth-


er’s genes. So your chance of growing up depressed would


be reduced by less than the full x percent. We cannot say


how far x is an overestimate, and this is true of many of


the estimates of effects in this book. Whenever the “cause”


being studied is correlated with an omitted measure of the


relevant genes, the estimated effect of the cause is biased


to be larger than the true effect. On the other hand, since


most of these “causes” are measured with error, that biases


the estimated effect to be smaller. For both of these rea-


sons the numbers in this book must be treated as a broad


first attempt to depict the key environmental determi-


nants of well- being— a first rather than a last word on the


subject.^9


Parents and the Emotional
Health of Their Children

So how much does parents’ behavior matter for their chil-


dren’s emotional health? A lot, but probably less than some


people think. If we take everything we know about parents,


it explains only 6 percent of the variance of their children’s


emotional health at 16.^10 This includes the effect of parents’


income and work (already discussed) and family conflict


(discussed in the next chapter). In the present chapter we


shall look at the main other factors we know in the child’s

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