Dear reader,
Earlier this year I travelled to Brazil with my partner to explore his homeland
and get to know his family. It was my first time meeting his parents, sister and
nephew, who all lived together in close confines in a brightly-lit apartment in Rio.
Every night, after a day of sightseeing, Greg and I would head to the family
apartment for dinner and be received with joyful fanfare. There were long
hugs and elated faces, and, despite my Portuguese being as dismal as
their English, hours and hours of spirited conversation. I immediately felt at
home, like I knew these people intimately and had shared meals with them
before. On one particular night, I had this vision of roots extending from
the table where we sat, all the way to my family’s table in country Western
Australia, and then to Greg and I’s table in our home in Melbourne.
It was a potent experience of belonging that connected me to a broader
web, and to myself. I was particularly struck by how seen I felt, and how
animated I became among these people I barely knew. It was like I had been
elevated by the kindness I was shown and moved to mirror it back. I’d leave
each dinner feeling more and more full, and not just around the waistline.
As I reflected on these experiences in light of this issue of Dumbo Feather,
I started to see that belonging is about encountering the self within an
ecosystem. It’s hinted at in the etymology of the word: a longing to be.
When we feel safe and held by the environment, we arrive in ourselves,
and are then free to connect deeply with who and what’s around us. There
is a dance that happens here between the “I” and the “we”—and in its
idealstate,eachishelpingtheothertoflourish.That’swhatI experienced
aroundthedinnertableinRio,andit’swhatI experienceeverytimeIfeel
like I belong, whether it’s in my workplace or out in nature alone.
This issue is full of ideas and wisdom for how we can create social
structures that foster this relationship between self and ecosystem.
It’s asking how we can walk back to one another as a species, and how
we mobilise—as John Paul Lederarch puts it—“around dignity and
compassion, rather than gut reactions to protect and defend.” It’s not only a
celebration of 60 issues (and 15 years of Dumbo Feather), it’s a celebration
of the best of who we are, and the best of who we can be together.
With love,
Nathan