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Oprah made this crystal clear at a
Democratic Party rally last year.
“I don’t want to run,” she said. “I’m not
trying to test any waters – I don’t want to
go into those waters.”


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PRAH and Stedman spend
as much time together as
their schedules allow.
Time together includes
holing up in one of the six
properties the former talk-
show queen owns.
They cherish their downtime and
Oprah has vowed never to let cameras
into her home.
Still, she does treatherfanstoa tour
of the groundsofhermagnificent66-
hectare propertyinMaui
urdays with Opra
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taking tropical
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new chef hasco
for lunch.
“It’s all aboutb
ful weekend m
ments,” she says.
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woman worth$
billion (R37,5bn)
to relax?
Between pick
flowers and atten
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ests, shesoaksina hottub.
“I take bath time seriously,” she says.
“I spent a lot of time looking for the best
possible bathtub a woman can buy.”
Then, when she couldn’t find the per-
fect tub, she had one made.
“It’s marble and onyx and has been
carved to the shape of my body,” she
recently told talk-show host James
Corden. “I told you, bathing is my hobby.”
Oprah got fans’ hopes up recently by
hinting that she misses her talk show
and may do a reboot.
“I would love to make that happen, let
me tell you. But maybe not every day,”
she recently told Entertainment Tonight
Canada, where she was promoting her
new book, The Path Made Clear: Discov-
ering Your Life’s Direction and Purpose.
“For 25 years, it was perfect. But I do
miss it during an election or when some-
thing really big happens in the news.
Then I think, ‘Oh, gee, I wish I had a
show’.”
If she did revive her show, Stedman
would be behind her all the way. There’s
nothing Oprah can’t do, he believes.
“Number one, she’s smart. Two, she
hasa photographicmemory,andthree,
sheworksvery,veryhard.Isthereany
wondershe’ssosuccessful?”
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WOODREPORTER.COM, HARPERSBAZAAR.COM, METRO.CO.UK,
POLITICO.COM, THE ELLEN DEGENERES SHOW, USATODAY.COM

Anacclaimed author,
anis currently pro moting
estself-help book.
BOVE: Oprah with author
ndjournalist Maria Shriver.
hey’ve been friends since
their days as young
reporters.

FT:The couple love to spend time together,
whether they travel or just hang out at one of
heirsix houses. BELOW LEFT: In her free time
prah grows her own vegetables or enjoys
weekend lunches with Stedman (BELOW)
r friends.

life. When you begin to love yourself, you
can begin to love other people.”
The key to staying with a partner as
phenomenally successful as Oprah has
been to find his own happiness.
“I explored my own skills, my own tal-
ents, my own abilities and I’m satisfied
with that.
“The combination, when you have
a partner who’s able to self-actualise
their potential and you’re able to self-
actualise yours, then you know, one and
one equals about six.”
Stedman, who’s published 12 books


  • in the self-help, motivational and busi-
    ness genres – has been married before
    and is grandfather to his daughter
    Wendy’s four-year-old daughter.
    Spending time with his daughter and
    grandchild is one of his favourite pas-
    times – but it’s Oprah who owns the
    almost 2m tall Stedman’s heart.
    He’d go to the ends of the earth for her,
    he says, and he’s behind her no matter
    what she decides to do – and that in-
    cludes her stand on running for the US
    presidency.
    Oprah has vehemently denied she’ll
    run and Stedman is behind her even
    though he believes she has “all the qual-
    ities to become president”.
    “You can trust her. She’s one of the
    greatest communicators in the world.
    She’s self-made. Nobody gave her any-
    thing. She also cares about people and
    she has empathy.”
    But she isn’t going to run, he adds, and
    people shouldn’t get their hopes up.


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