Women’s Health UK – September 2019

(Elliott) #1
Did you grow
up in a naked
house? You
either did or you
didn’t. I didn’t.
I was raised by
parents who
would dash from
one room to
another if all the clean pants
were hanging in the spare room,
and each member of my family
can do a full outfit change
while holding a towel around
themselves with one hand.
The thing is, this stuff sets a
benchmark for adulthood. I’ve
always felt more comfortable
about sex when it happens
under bed sheets and the cover
of darkness, and I nearly had a
hernia on my first girls’ holiday
when two friends shared a bath,
nude bodies side by side. I’m
positive this attitude of the
naked body as something to be
hidden has fed into my issues
around body confidence, so I
volunteer to follow the experts’
advice and strip off more often.
‘For some, the act of being naked
could feel empowering and
foster a sense of comfort with
one’s body, which can reduce
self-objectification and body
shame,’ body image researcher
at UWE Bristol Nadia Craddock
explains. ‘Indeed, a 2017 study,
published in the Journal Of
Happiness, found seeing other
naked bodies was associated
with positive body image.’
I find the gym less nerve-
racking than my own house, so
I start there. Seeing women of
all ages, shapes and ethnicities
wandering around in the nude

or underwear as they towel off, sort out
kit or apply make-up in the changing
room of Soho’s Third Space has already
had an impact on the way I view the female
figure. Can I join them? I start slowly –
not grabbing the towel if it slips to reveal
a boob, and moisturising my legs in just
a thong and T-shirt. Baby steps for some,
but massive leaps for me. It feels terrifying
at first, and takes a good week to override
the autopilot reaction to cover up. It turns
out forgetting gym kit offers a helping hand


  • one day I realise I’ve packed just a sports
    bra and shorts, and where once I’d have
    walked out, I embrace it as a chance to get
    more skin out. I spend the first 20 minutes
    of my hour bike workout oscillating between
    trying to suck my slightly wobbly torso in
    and staring at it in curiosity, but by the time
    I step off, I’m hardly aware of what’s on show.
    At home, the change feels a bit more
    pronounced because I know my fiancé
    will notice. Being in a loving relationship
    (with someone who would eschew clothes
    entirely if society allowed) has loosened me
    up a little, but it takes a conscious effort to
    walk from room to room naked. I pull my
    stomach in, try to take up as little space as
    possible. He says nothing, possibly aware
    something is shifting, which helps – to draw
    attention would risk undoing any positive
    change the nudity has prompted.
    After three weeks, airing out my birthday
    suit hasn’t catapulted my body confidence
    into uncharted territory, but it’s certainly
    helped to lessen my inbuilt shame around
    it. I walk around naked at home with less
    internal chatter and strip down to try on an
    outfit in a friend’s room rather than slip into
    the bathroom. If it means I can downsize
    my towel collection, that’s just a bonus.


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DOES IT WORK IN REAL LIFE?

It seems counterintuitive – showing off skin to feel more
comfortable in it. But, as experts suggest nudity can promote
better body image, one nuddy-averse editor strips off

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