Cosmopolitan USA – September 2019

SEX Q&A

author of The Game of

Desire. Also, remem-

ber that you only have

to spill what you’re

comfortable sharing.

What’s the best

sex position when

you’re with a well-

endowed guy?

AWell, lucky you!

Then again...maybe

not? Receiving an

oversize package

can be uncomfort-

able—or even painful.

Try hopping on top.

“You’ll be in control

of the thrusting, so you

can decide how deep

and fast he can go,”

says Boodram. Or try

standing up with him

behind you. “He’ll

lose some inches

because you have

a natural cushion

between your bodies,”

explains Boodram.

Hint: It’s your butt.

Can I pass some-

one herpes if I give

them oral when I

have a cold sore

on my mouth?

A”A bs o l u t e l y—we s e e

it all the time,” says

Leah Millheiser, MD,

clinical assistant pro-

fessor and director

of the female sexual

medicine program at

Stanford University.

Whenever you feel

a cold sore coming

I’m bisexual. How

do I deal with

nosy-AF Qs about

my hookups from

straight friends?

AAs much as this

probably pisses you

off, take a beat and

think about it this way:

Friends will always

ask for the sexual

tea. Why? Because

talking about sex with

people you know and

trust is almost as much

fun as having it. (I said

almost.) And “their

curiosity is a positive

thing because you

get to debunk myths

and misconceptions in

one community—and

that might ultimately

help another commu-

nity,” says sex educa-

tor Shan Boodram,

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E ve r y t hin g is f air g am e o n

these pages, people.

All your

superhot sex

questions,

answered

By FAYE BRENNAN

lust

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