Our Canada – August-September 2019

(Steven Felgate) #1
SHOWCASE

I


wasborninGeorgia,U.S.S.R,
and came to Canada when I
was four years old. My husband
Esfandiar was born in Iran and
mmigrated to Canada in 1987. Our
hildren, Shanaz and Jean-Diar,
ach have a partner in life (Bran-
don and Reilly respectively) with
diverse ethnic backgrounds. My
husband and I are proud grand-
parents as our daughter Shanaz
and Brandon welcomed our
first grandchild on March 2; his
name is Lukenzo Kal Correia.
Our beautiful little “Luka”
has a mix of Georgian, Per-
sian, Jamaican and Guyanese
hg.To me, this unique blend is a
perfect recipe, and it’s the reason I was
inspired to write my first-ever children’s
book series, Honeycake: A Family of
Spices, based on my own family and our
diverse ethnic backgrounds.
When I left the corporate world to be-
come a Reiki master, I never looked back.
Reiki is often described as an alternative
medicine in which a “universal energy” is
said to be transferred through the palms of
the practitioner to the patient to encour-
age emotional or physical healing. I knew
that this was what I was put on Earth to
do. Because of my Reiki training, I am
committed to my personal growth, heal-
ing and living my best life; and to inspiring
others to do the same. This is what I teach
my clients on a daily basis. So, transition-
ing into becoming a writer and sharing the
same lessons and tools with children was
seamless for me. My books and my career
change were not planned; the universe
showed me the way, so I had to follow my
instinct, and I’m so glad I did. I feel like a

totally di­erent person and I see things in
such a di­erent way.
The fact that I have no formal training
as a writer didn’t stop me from trying. I al-
ways wanted to write my biography some-
day, later down the road, because I’ve had
so many experiences in my life. But I never
had any intention of writing anything else,
especially not a children’s book series. But
the universe sent me a sign, and the mes-
sages were in me to share, and they simply
had to come out. I wrote five books in four
days—I simply could not stop.
I was inspired to write these books when
my daughter Shanaz became pregnant and
I realized that I was going to become a
grandmother. In honour of my own grand-
mother, I decided to bake a honey cake—a
traditional Jewish cake from my native
Georgia, which is typically baked for Rosh
Hashanah and other special celebrations.
It was a full-circle moment for me because
my “Bebi” taught me how to make a honey
cake when I was a young girl.

LIFE LESSONS
Theconnectionbetweenthe cake and
my grandchild-to-be lay in the mix of dif-
ferent spices, which I realized was much
like the mix of di­erent ethnicities in my
family. There are all these di­erent spices
in a honey cake, like cinnamon, cloves and
nutmeg, and here is my grandson with all
these di­erent mixes of ethnicities. As I
was baking, I realized that he was going to
be my “Little Honeycake,” which gave me
the idea of the name for the series.
In my first installment of the series,
the grandmother (the literary version of
myself) explains why she calls her grand-
children “Honeycakes” while she teaches
the fictional character Nala how to bake a

Medea (back
right) with her
mother and sis-
ters in Florida
in 1989.


A FAMILY OF SPICES


Just like the spices in a honey cake, a blend of ethnicities


adds flavour to life by Medea Kalantar, Toronto


I
immigrated
children,
each
don
diverse
husband
parents

heritage. To

38 Our Canada AUGUST / SEPTEMBER 2019

Free download pdf