Glimpse – July 2019

JULY 2019 | GLIMPSE | 83

GLIMPSE EYE

unappreciated by your husband? Is he
being rude and disrespectful? Even
though he is behaving in appropriately,
it doesn't mean that's' the way it
always has to be. People can change
and do change all the time but they
need to know how. Sometimes, people
behave in a certain way without even
being aware of it. Your boyfriend’s
disrespecting behaviour is something
that is causing you a lot of pain and you
should make sure he knows how bad
it makes you feel. Before making any
radical decisions, you should try and
have a sincere conversation with him
regarding this problem. Confront him
about everything he’s been doing to you!
You should also try your best to express
your feelings, for him to realize how his
behaviour has been affecting you and
your relationship. This is something
that might snap him back to reality,
causing him to think about his behaviour

through and to take some responsibility

for his it.

2 Respect yourself

People will only love and respect you if

you love and respect yourself, so if you

are the only one running around for this

relationship, keeping aside all your self-

respect then drop the dead weight and

respect yourself.

3 Not happening overnight

If your boyfriend is disrespectful, it is

likely he has been this way for a while.

He will not change overnight and this

will require more than one conversation

to sort out. You need to be patient and

you have to be sure that you are ready

to put in so much of effort for him, you

and this relationship. The ball is in your

court, so make sure you make a choice

which you don’t regret later.

4 Create a safe place

Before beginning your discussions,

create a safe space so you both feel