Femina India – July 10, 2019

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ALL ABOUT YOU passion


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Oberoi*, “My partner
suggested that we should
play out the fantasy. We met
at a local bar the next day,
and ended up spending
a passion-filled night later.”
If you have a specific
idea—say being a dominatrix
or a nurse—you could plan
a date in advance, and get the
costumes and props ready.
After all, setting the mood is
important, and you need to
make sure that the roleplay is
realistic. If you’re not able to
get into character at home,
head out and book a hotel
room or another house for
a night. Push the boundaries.

with a stranger. You know,
getting down and dirty with
a cute pizza delivery guy, who
I surprise at the door in sexy
lingerie. When I told my
husband about what I had in
mind, he readily agreed. It was
one of the steamiest sessions
ever!” Kapoor recalls.

Set the scene
Now that all of the above is in
place, it is time to enact that
fantasy. “I always wondered
how it would be to meet
a stranger in a club and end
up having wild sex with him,”
says 32-year-old marketing
professional from Mumbai, Sia

Pretend play allows you to fulfil
your fantasies without judgement

GET INTO
THE ROLE
Here are some roleplay
ideas that you can begin
with before diving into
it with the ones you
fantasise about.

Painter and muse:
Who hasn’t seen Titanic’s
iconic scene with Jack,
Rose, the painting, and the
steamy sex that follows?
All you need is paper, pen,
a sensual neckpiece, and
you’re set.

Teacher
and student:
There is something erotic
about a person telling you
about the different ways he
or she can turn you on—
and beyond. And what
good is a teacher who
doesn’t show the practical
side of theory?

Personal chef:
Why not be a personal
chef—or let him be one—
who wears an apron and
a chef’s hat, and nothing
else? Prepare (or order)
some decadent dishes
prior and serve them up.
The dessert can be served
between the sheets!

Sleeping beauty:
While the story had the
prince ‘waking’ her up with
just a kiss, this story can
go beyond—how about the
‘prince charming’ going all
out to wake up this
princess, right?

Master and slave:
While the scenario has you
doing all sorts of things to
appease your master, there
are chances that your
master might just want to
‘reward’ you for being so
obedient. Think whips,
restraints, and the whole
she‘bang’. Yowza!

YOU COULD PLAN
A DATE IN ADVANCE,
AND GET THE
COSTUMES AND
PROPS READY.
AFTER ALL,
SETTING THE MOOD
IS IMPORTANT,
AND YOU NEED TO
MAKE SURE THAT
THE ROLEPLAY IS
REALISTIC.
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