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longtime assistant Bonny Burke. After her diag-
nosis Blair’s closest friends rallied around her.
“They’ve stood up in ways I never would have been
comfortable with before,” she says. Her Cruel Inten-
tions costar and friend of 20 years Sarah Michelle
Gellar started and continues to provide a weekly
“food train” for Blair and Arthur, while Jaime King
sends her “gorgeous” flower arrangements every
week. “I get weekend meal packs like I’ve never
feasted on before from Reese Witherspoon, from
Constance Zimmer and so many people I don’t even
know through Sarah. Her friends are just doing this
to feed me and Arthur.” Blair’s friends’ regular visits
nourish them in other ways too. “It’s so important
for my son to see me interacting with people and to
see Mom laughing with them.” In being “forced to
open up and allow people in,” Blair hopes that she’s
turned over a new social leaf. “I’m going to have to
remember on days that I feel better to reach out
to them. Like, ‘Hey, can you still come around?
Because you’re my friends and I still need you.’ ”

Her eating habits had to change.
Before her diagnosis, Blair admits, she “never ate.
I’d pick at what I made for Arthur, but I never ate.”
While her MS has negatively affected her appetite
and diaphragm reflexes, resulting in her feeling
nauseated more often than not, Blair knows nutri-
tion has to be a priority. “I drink bulletproof coffee
[in which coffee is blended with grass-fed butter
or ghee], because I’m all for lipids for the brain,”
she says. “I drink celery juice because people tell
me to, and beet kvass [a salty probiotic tonic of cul-
tured beets], which is amazing. But I don’t have
an appetite. I feel like throwing up all the time.”

She wants to make a difference.
Living with a disease has taught Blair about what
isn’t available to fellow MS patients as well as oth-
ers who are struggling—and she wants to change
that. “I want to get Alinkers to people who need
them. For people who are housebound, I want to

THE BIKE


THAT’S CHANGING LIVES


The Alinker is a pedal-free, three-wheel walking bike
that helps people with mobility issues continue to be
active with much less effort and muscle strain than
standard walkers, thanks to its adjustable seat and
handlebars. “It’s about people getting their lives back,”
says designer and founder B.E. Alink, who hopes the
$1,977 bikes will one day be covered by insurance. Until
then Alink and Blair support crowdfunding campaigns
for people who need them: “Sixteen campaigns reached
their goal so far, and 11 more are live.”

make their houses beautiful and also accessible,”
she says. “I want to help people get insurance to
cover them; to help make an accessible clothing
line a possibility.”

She has no plans to quit acting
anytime soon.
Since coming forward with her diagnosis, Blair
has been approached for more acting work than
she ever expected. “I’m so grateful. The problem is
that I have f------ MS, so I can’t do it all,” she notes
with a laugh. “Michael J. Fox told me that when he
was shooting a show with Parkinson’s, there was
that reality he forgot about: He has f------ Par-
kinson’s. It’s hard to shoot a show.” Blair intends
to continue to do as much as she can, especially
for those who have embraced and championed
her abilities post-diagnosis, like the Another Life
cast and crew. “To have people believe in you gives
you so much more strength than I realized,” she
says. “I never asked that from people before, and
I need it now.” •

‘I feel more

comfortable

in my skin

now, even if my

actual skin is

uncomfortable’

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Blair and
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June 2019.

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