SM Shopmag – July 2019

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If you look back at your grade school


yearbook, you’d probably laugh at the


goals you had written for yourself. Some


goals are too ambitious (be the first


Filipina in space), too unrealistic (become


a fairy princess), or too vague (become rich


and live in a big house) for 10 year olds to


achieve. Admittedly, even a decade later,


some goals are still far-off.


Still, it’s not a bad idea to start setting


goals when you’re young. ''It is a fallacy


that youth is a time when one can gamble


on investments,'' financial planner Charles


Obsusin was quoted saying in The New


York Times article “The Art of Successful


Goal Setting.” It’s true that a lot of people,


especially in this country, think that your


teenage years and early twenties are a


time to have fun and not think about what


you really want to do in life. It’s this blasé,


bahala na attitude that can unfortunately


bite you in the back later on.


As a young person, you might feel a sense


of embarrassment about setting up goals—


Is this goal really for me? Maybe this isn’t


a good fit. If I say it out loud, people might


make fun of me—and that’s where one of


the best benefits of goal-setting comes in.


FEATURE




Goal-Setting is a


Young Person


Thing, too


It’s never too young to start thinking


about your future


Mapping out your plans doesn’t only help


you buckle up, it also helps you “fake it till


you make it.”


While you’re young, be ambitious and


don’t be afraid to know what you want.


When you’re older, you might regret not


taking what could’ve been a career-


defining opportunity. And as the pop diva


Cher already taught us in 1989, you can’t


turn back time, no matter how much you


want to.


Wonder, passion, and rigor are the three


core things you need in life. Wonder and


passion are obvious: If you don’t have either


wonder and passion for what you do, then


why do it? But rigor is the more nebulous


one. There will be hard times when your


wonder and passion will escape you. Your


sheer rigor is what’s going to keep you


going. Rigor is the ability to clock in your


work even under great duress, to do all


your tasks at hand. It’s the less glamorous


side of achieving your dreams, sure, but it’s


also the one that helps hone your talent


and skills. Goal-setting is inherently part of


this. It may not sound as fun, but it helps


keep you in line and prepared for what you


have to do.


You’re not


just trudging


on with a


fuzzy dream


of a future;


you have a


concrete


reality that


you know


how to reach.


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