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Walking with nowhere to go
Rather than lying awake, agitated
that you’re not sleeping, get up and
have a wander to shift the attention
out of your head and into your body.
You can walk up and down a corridor
or room, or round in a circle, arms
wherever they feel most natural,
feet preferably bare.
Begin by standing up straight
and still, and sending your
attention around your whole body.
Notice how your weight is
distributed by your feet.
Shift to one side and peel the
heel of the opposite foot off the
floor. Notice how the sensations
change. Which part of your foot
comes into contact with the floor
first? Do the same with the other
foot, then slowly walk step by step.
If you’re walking in a straight
line, pause at the end, stand
still, then consciously turn. Notice
how the distribution of weight
may feel unsteady and awkward.
Continue walking.
Expand your attention from
your feet and become aware
of your whole body moving
through space. Perhaps include
the environment, its sounds and
smells. Then narrow your attention
to your feet once more, switching
back and forth as desired.
When you’re done, stand as
you did at the start for a few
more moments.
When you resist your personal sleep
experience and want it to be different,
it can lead to disappointment. You
may create mental stories about it,
catastrophising (‘This is a nightmare’),
generalising (‘I’m never able to sleep’),
blaming (‘This is all my fault – or
someone else’s’), judging (‘I should be
able to sleep’), and so on. You can get
caught up in the tales, but actually they
are just a reflection of your state of mind.
Break the cycle by becoming aware
of the different stories. Then you can
choose how to respond. For example...
Name the monsters: Notice what story
is in your head tonight – perhaps it’s
the ‘all my fault’ tale. Acknowledge
it but don’t give yourself a hard time.
The more you do this, the more you’ll
notice that it’s the same old ‘monsters’
reappearing. You can introduce a bit
of fun and give each one a silly name,
which undermines them so you gain
more perspective.
Your perceived amount of sleep:
Once, after a broken night, I told a friend
‘It was terrible – I was awake for hours’.
I felt exhausted. Yet when I looked at
What’s your bedtime story?
my fitness tracker’s sleep monitor, it
recorded eight and a half hours’ sleep.
Reading that made me feel better
(despite knowing they’re not always
accurate). My perception had changed.
It’s healthier to become familiar with
your body’s signals and respond when it
feels tired or refreshed, rather than focus
on what you think you experienced.
Shifting out of your head: You can
also notice how a story is manifesting in
your body, since negative stories often
generate uncomfortable sensations.
Bring a friendly interest to whatever
you notice physically and emotionally,
and remind yourself there’s no need to
do anything to fix or change what you
become aware of.
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Edited extract from
Mindfulness and Sleep
by Anna Black
(CICO Books, $30).