BBC Focus - 03.2020

(Michael S) #1
FEATURE INTERVIEW

“ADHDcan makeyoufeel

lost, and socanautism, but

together, somehow, you

find yourway through.

It’s almost like magic”

2 isoftena treasureinthenext.That’sactually
kindofnice,becauseit givesusthatwiggle-
roomweneedandthatopen-mindednesstosay,
youknowwhat?Let’scutourselvessome slack.
If it’snotworking,it’snotworking.
Weareallevolving,andtobeabletoevolve
togetheris great,buttoevolveseparatelyand
throughdifferentmeansis alsogreat. It’s our
energetic potential as people.

YOU’VEMENTIONEDNEURODIVERSITY,WHICH
ISOFTENCOMPAREDAGAINSTNEUROTYPICAL.
CANYOUEXPLAINWHATTHESETERMSMEAN?
Peoplecommonlyreferto‘neurotypical’as
someonewhois notyetdiagnosedwitha
mentalhealthvariance.I don’tcallit disorder,
becauseI believe it is clearly imposed by
environment.
Neurodiversityis a termthatis quiteclosely
relatedtoautism,ADHD,bipolarand
schizophrenia;allthosedifferenttypesof
psychologicalimpositionsthatcanaffectyou.
Whatyoufindwiththesementalhealth
variancesis thata lotofthestrugglesthat
peoplehave,aremainlydue to the intolerances
oftheirenvironment.
If leftalone,I’mnormal.I’mfine.Happyas
Larry.Butif I hadtositat mydeskina certain
wayallday,I’dgoabsolutelynuts.I actuallysit
undermydesk– I’vegota standingdesk– and
I readthere.Thepeopleat myworkarevery
acceptingofthat.So,whatI’dwanteveryone
toknowaboutneurodiversity, is to just accept
andembraceit.
Honestly,I thinkeveryoneis neurodiverse.
Eventhoughyoutrytobesquare,you’renot
square.I’mverysorrytotellyou,it doesn’t
exist.Youarea speciesonthisplanetandyou
aresubjecttoevolution.You’regoingtoevolve
buttoadmittothat,andtobehaveasyour
naturalself,is sometimesquite hard with these
kindofsocialconstraints.
So,neurodiversityis somethingwe’reall
facedwith.Someofusjustknowhowtohideit
better,becausetheyeitherfeelit less,or maybe
becausethey’remorescared.Tobe
neurodiverseandtoshowit,thatis actually
verybrave,andtakesa lotofguts.
Youhavetoknowhowtotrainit,touseit,
andnotbehinderedbyyoubeinganoddshape.
It’seasytofeelsqueezedandtrapped.I’m
speakingfrommypersonalexperienceand
everyone who has a diagnosed mental health

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