thehousekeeperwhowaswatching
hiswife.
Aldosentmygrandmothera mes-
sagelatethatnight.“Therewewere,
youandI,asifwehadbeengood
friendsfor 68 years,helpingeach
otherinsorrowandrejoicingtogether
injoy,”hewrote.“IthankGodforal-
lowingmethechancetobewithyou.”
T
heymetforcoffeedaily,during
thefewhourshecouldgetout
ofthehouse.Mygrandmother
refusedtobealonewithhim.
“Whatwouldpeoplethinkif theysaw
ustogether?”shesaid.“Itlooksbad.”
AtfirstI laughedthisoffasan
antiquatedsenseofmodesty.But
every wherewewentAldoseemed
torunintoanacquaintance. “Aldo
Sportelli!”afriendwould
shoutfromacrossthestreet,
makingmy grandmother
cringe.
Ononedatehebrought
hisdaughterandgrandson.I
wasworriedaboutwhatthey
wouldthinkofmy grand-
mother,butallanxietydisap-
pearedwhenwemetthem.
Sabrina, Aldo’sdaughter,
pulledmygrandmotherinto
a tighthug.Mygrandmother
hadbroughthera necklace,
whichsheputonrightaway.
“GiveGrandmaMarilenaa
hug,”SabrinatoldGiorgio,her
12-year-oldson.
“It’sbeenagiftforDad,”
Sabrinasaidlaterthatdaywhen
I askedhowshefeltabouttheirrela-
tionship.“He’sa victimofMother’s
condition.”
Whenweweren’twithAldoand
hisfamily,mygrandmotherwant-
edtoexplorePolignano.Itwasstilla
charminghamletwithnarrowlime-
stonestreetsleadingtoscenicout-
postsoverlookingthesea.Butmuch
hadchangedsinceherlastvisit.Red
BullhadchosenPolignanoasthesite
foritsannualcliff-divingcompetition,
andthetownwasnowoverrunwith
tourists.
Therestaurantinthecavewasstill
operating,andmygrandmother,who
wasallowedtowatchguestsdine
thereonlyfroma distanceat15,want-
ed to see it up close. On one of our last PHOTO COURTESY OF THE AUTHOR
MarilenaandAldoreunitedin
Polignano a Mare
76 March 2020
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