est?
Lustig
usedselective
honestymany
times,
butwith
Capone
hewenta
step
further.Nonormalconmanwouldhavedaredsucha
con;
hewould
havechosenhissuckersfortheir
meekness,
forthatlookaboutthemthat
saysthey
willtaketheir
medicinewithout
complaint.
Con
Capone
and
you
would
spend
the
restof
your
life
(whatever
remained of
it)
afraid.But
Lustig
understoodthatamanlike
Caponespends
hislife
rrfistrusting
oth-
ers.Noonearoundhimishonestor
generous,
and
being
somuchinthe
company
ofwolvesis
exhausting,
even
depressing.
Amanlike
Capone
yearns
tobethe
recipient
of
anhonestor
generousgesture,
tofeelthat
not
everyone
has
an
angle
orisouttorobhim.
Lusiig’s
actofselective
honesty
disarmed
Capone
becauseitwasso
unexpected.
Aconartistloves
conflicting
emotionslike
these,
sincethe
person
caughtup
inthemisso
easily
distracted
and
deceived.
Donot
shyaway
from
practicing
this
law
onthe
Capones
of
theworld.
Withawell-timed
gesture
of
honesty
or
generosity,you
will
havethemost
brutaland
cynical
beastinthe
kingdomeating
outof
your
hand.
Everything
turns
gray
whenIdon’thaveatleastonemarkanthehorizon.
Life
thenseems
empty
and
depressing.
Icannotunderstandhonestmm.
They
lead
desperate
lives,
fullofbaredom.
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The
essence
of
deception
isdistraction.
Distracting
the
peopleyou
want
to
deceive
givesyou
thetimeand
space
todo
somethingthey
won’:notice.
Anactof
kindness,
generosity,
or
honesty
isoftenthemost
powerful
form
ofdistractionbecauseitdisannsother
people’ssuspicions.
Ittumsthem
into
children,
eagerlylappingupany
kindofa.ft'ectiona.te
gesture.
InancientChinathiswascalled
“giving
before
you
take”--the
giving
makesithardforthe
other
person
tonotice
the
taldng.
It
is
a
devicewith
infinite
practical
uses.
Brazenly
taking
something
fromsomeoneis
danger-
ous,
evenforthe
powerful.
Thevictimwill
plotrevenge.
Itisalso
danger-
ous
simply
toaskforwhat
you
need,
nomatterhow
politely:
Unless
the
other
person
seessome
gain
for
themselves,
theymay
cometoresent
your
neediness.Learnto
give
before
you
take.Itsoftensthe
ground,
takesthe
biteoutofafuture
request,
or
simply
createsadistraction.Andthe
giving
cantake
many
forms:anactual
gift,
at
generousact,
akind
favor,
an“l1on~
est”admission-—whateverittakes.
Selective
honesty
isbest
employed
on
your
firstencounterwith
some
one.Weareallcreaturesof
habit,
andourfirst
impressions
lasta
long
time.
Ifsomeonebelieves
you
arehonestatthestartof
yourrelationship
ittakes
alottoconvincethemotherwise.This
gives
you
roomtomaneuver.
jay
Gould,
like Al
Capone,
was
a
man
who
distrusted
everyone.
By
the
time
he
was
thirty—three
he
was
already
a
multimillionaire,
mostlythroughdeception
and
strong-arming.
Inthelate
1860s,
Gouldin-
vested
heavily
intheErie
Railroad,
thendiscoveredthatthemarkethad
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