to
destroy
Paris’s
city,Troy.
The
siege
lastedten
years,many
heroes
died,
yet
neithersidehadcomecloseto
victory.
One
day,
the
prophet
Calchas
assembledtheGreeks.
“Stopbatteringaway
at
thesewalls!”hetoldthem.“Youmustfind
some other
way,
some ruse.Wecannottake
Troyby
forcealone.We mustfindsome
cunning
stratagem.”
The cun—
ning
Greek leader
Odysseus
thencame
up
withtheideaof
building
a
giant
wooden
horse,
hiding
soldiersinside
it,
then
offering
itto the
Trojans
as a
gift.
Neoptolemus,
son of
Achilles,
was
disgusted
with this
idea;
it was
unmanly.
Better for
thousandstodieonthe battlefieldthan
to
gain
victory
so
deceitfully.
Butthe
soldiers,
faced
with
achoicebetween anotherten
years
of
manliness,honor,
and
death,
ontheonehand
anda
quickvictory
on the
other,
chosethe
horse,
whichwas
promptly
built.Thetrickwassuccessfuland
Troy
fell.
One
gift
didmorefortheGreekcausethanten
years
of
fighting.
Selectivekindnessshouldalsobe
part
of
your
arsenalof
deception.
For
years
theancientRomanshad
besieged
the
city
ofthe
Faliscans,
always
un~
successfully.
One
day,
however,
whentheRoman
general
Camilluswas
encamped
outsidethe
city,
he
suddenly
sawaman
leading
somechildren
towardhim.ThemanwasaFaliscan
teacher,
andthe
children,
itturned
out,
werethesonsand
daughters
ofthe
noblest
and
wealthiestcitizensof
thetown.Onthe
pretense
of
taking
thesechildrenoutfora
walk,
hehad
ledthem
straight
tothe
Romans,
offering
themas
hostages
in
hopes
ofin-
gratiating
himselfwith
Camillus,
the
city’senemy.
Camillusdidnottakethechildren
hostage.
He
stripped
the
teadier,
tiedhishandsbehindhis
back,
gave
eachchilda
rod,
andletthem
whip
himall
the
way
backtothe
city.
The
gesture
hadanimmediateeffecton
theFaliscans.HadCamillususedthechildrenas
hostages,
someinthe
city
wouldhavevotedtosurrender.AndeveniftheFaliscanshad
gone
on
fighting,
theirresistancewouldhavebeenhalfhearted.Camillus’srefusalto
take
advantage
ofthe
situationbrokedowntheFaliscans’
resistance,
and
they
surrendered.The
general
hadcalculated
correctly.
Andin
any
casehe
hadhad
nothing
tolose:Heknewthatthe
hostageploy
wouldnothave
endedthe
war,
atleastnot
rightaway.Byturning
thesituation
around,
he
earnedhis
enemy’s
trustand
respecgdisarming
them.Selectivekindness
willoftenbreakdowneventhemoststubbornfoe:
Aimingright
forthe
heart,
it
corrodesthe
will
to
fight
back.
Remember:
By
playing
on
people’s
emotions,
calculatedactsofkind-
nesscanturna
Capone
intoa
gullible
child.Aswith
any
emotional
ap-
proach,
thetacticmustbe
practiced
withcaution:If
people
see
through
it,
their
disappointedfeelings
of
gratitude
andwarmthwill
becomethemost
violenthatredanddistrustUnless
you
canmakethe
gesture
seemsincere
and
heartfelt,
donot
play
withfire.
Ima
g
e: The
Trojan
Horse.
Your
guile
is
hiddeninside
a
magnificent
gift
that
proves
irresistibleto
youropponent.
Thewalls
open.
Once
inside,
wreak havoc.
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