to
destroy
Paris’scity,Troy.
The
siegelastedten
years,manyheroes
died,yet
neithersidehadcomecloseto
victory.Oneday,
theprophet
CalchasassembledtheGreeks.
“Stopbatteringaway
at
thesewalls!”hetoldthem.“Youmustfindsome other
way,
some ruse.WecannottakeTroyby
forcealone.We mustfindsome
cunningstratagem.”
The cun—
ningGreek leaderOdysseus
thencame
upwiththeideaof
buildinga
giant
woodenhorse,
hiding
soldiersinside
it,then
offering
itto the
Trojansas a
gift.Neoptolemus,
son of
Achilles,wasdisgusted
with this
idea;
it was
unmanly.
Better forthousandstodieonthe battlefieldthan
to
gain
victory
so
deceitfully.Butthe
soldiers,
facedwith
achoicebetween anotherten
years
ofmanliness,honor,
and
death,
ontheonehand
anda
quickvictory
on the
other,chosethehorse,
whichwas
promptly
built.ThetrickwassuccessfulandTroy
fell.One
gift
didmorefortheGreekcausethanten
yearsoffighting.
Selectivekindnessshouldalsobe
partof
yourarsenalofdeception.
Foryears
theancientRomanshadbesieged
the
cityoftheFaliscans,
always
un~successfully.
Oneday,
however,
whentheRomangeneral
Camilluswasencamped
outsidethe
city,hesuddenly
sawamanleading
somechildrentowardhim.ThemanwasaFaliscan
teacher,
andthe
children,itturnedout,
werethesonsanddaughters
ofthe
noblest
and
wealthiestcitizensofthetown.Onthe
pretense
oftaking
thesechildrenoutfora
walk,
hehadledthem
straight
tothe
Romans,offering
themashostages
inhopes
ofin-gratiating
himselfwith
Camillus,thecity’senemy.
Camillusdidnottakethechildrenhostage.
Hestripped
the
teadier,tiedhishandsbehindhis
back,
gave
eachchilda
rod,
andletthem
whiphimall
the
way
backtothecity.
Thegesture
hadanimmediateeffectontheFaliscans.HadCamillususedthechildrenas
hostages,
someinthe
citywouldhavevotedtosurrender.AndeveniftheFaliscanshad
gone
onfighting,
theirresistancewouldhavebeenhalfhearted.Camillus’srefusaltotake
advantage
ofthe
situationbrokedowntheFaliscans’
resistance,
andthey
surrendered.Thegeneral
hadcalculatedcorrectly.
Andin
anycasehehadhad
nothing
tolose:Heknewthatthehostageploy
wouldnothaveendedthe
war,
atleastnotrightaway.Byturning
thesituation
around,heearnedhis
enemy’s
trustandrespecgdisarming
them.Selectivekindnesswilloftenbreakdowneventhemoststubbornfoe:
Aimingright
fortheheart,
it
corrodesthe
will
to
fightback.Remember:By
playing
onpeople’s
emotions,
calculatedactsofkind-nesscanturna
Capone
intoagullible
child.Aswith
anyemotional
ap-proach,
thetacticmustbepracticed
withcaution:Ifpeople
seethrough
it,their
disappointedfeelings
ofgratitude
andwarmthwill
becomethemostviolenthatredanddistrustUnless
you
canmakethe
gestureseemsincereand
heartfelt,
donotplay
withfire.Ima
ge: TheTrojanHorse.Your
guileishiddeninsidea
magnificentgiftthat
provesirresistibletoyouropponent.Thewalls
open.Once
inside,wreak havoc.LAW 12
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