causeneedlessoffense.To
play
the
gameproperly,you
mustseeminter-
estedinother
people‘sproblems,
evensometimes
appear
totaketheirside.
Butwhile
you
makeoutward
gestures
of
support,you
mustmaintain
your
inner
energy
and
sanitybykeepingyour
emotions
disengaged.
Nomatter
howhard
peopletry
to
pullyou
in,
neverlet
your
interestintheiraffairs
and
pettysquabblesgobeyond
thesurface.Givethem
gifts,
listen
with
a
sympathetic
look,
even
occasionallyplay
thecharmer-—but
inwardlykeep
boththe
friendlykings
andthe
perfidious
Borgias
atarm’s
length.By
refus~
ing
tocommitandthus
maintaining
yourautonomyyou
retaintheinitia-
tive: Your moves
stay
matters of
your
own
choosing,
not defensive
reactionstothe
push-and~pu1l
ofthosearound
you.
Slownessto
pick
upyour
weapons
canbea
weapon
itself,
especially
if
you
letother
people
exhaustthemselves
fighting,
thentake
advantage
of
theirexhaustion.Inancient
China,
the
kingdom
ofChinonceinvadedthe
kingdom
of
Hsing.
Huan,
therulerofa
nearbyprovince,thought
he
should
rushto
Hsing’s
defense,
buthis
advisercounseled
him
towait:
“Hsing
isnot
yet
going
to
ruin,”
he
said,
“andChinisnot
yet
exhausted.If
Chinisnot
exhausted,
[we]
cannotbecome
very
influential.
Moreover,
the
meritof
supporting
astatein
danger
isnotas
great
asthevirtueof
reviving
aruinedone.”Theadviser’s
argument
wonthe
day,
andashehad
pre-
dicted,
Huan
laterhadthe
glory
both
of
rescuingHsing
fromthebrink
of
destructionandthenof
conquering
anexhaustedChin.He
stayed
outof
the
fighting
untiltheforces
engaged
inithadworneachother
down,
at
which
point
itwassafeforhimtointervene.
Thatiswhat
holding
backfromthe
fray
allows
you:
timeto
position
yourselfto
take
advantage
of
thesituation
onceonesidestartsto
lose.
You
canalsotakethe
game
a
step
further,
bypromisingyoursupport
toboth
sidesinaconflictwhile
maneuvering
sothattheonetocomeoutaheadin
the
struggle
is
you.
ThiswaswhatCastn1ccio
Castracani,
ruleroftheItalian
townofLuccainthefourteenth
century,
didwhenhehad
designs
onthe
townofPistoia.A
siege
wouldhavebeen
expensive,costing
bothlivesand
money,
butCastruccioknewthat
Pistoia
containedtworival
factions,
the
Blacksandthe
Whites,
whichhatedoneanother.He
negotiated
withthe
Blacks,
promising
to
help
them
against
the
Whites;then,
withouttheir
knowledge,
he
promised
the Whiteshe would
help
them
against
the
Blacks.AndCastruccio
kept
his
promiseswhe
sentan
army
toa
Black-
controlled
gate
tothe
city,
whichthesentxiesofcourse welcomedin.
Meanwhileanotherofhisarmiesentered
through
aWhite—control1ed
gate.
Thetwoarmiesunitedinthe
middle,
occupied
the
town,
killedtheleaders
ofboth
factions,
ended
theinternal
war,
and
tookPistoiaforCastruccio.
Preservingyourautonomygivesyouoptions
when
people
cometo
blows—~you
can
play
the
mediator,
brokerthe
peace,
while
reallysecuring
your
owninterests.Youcan
pledgesupport
toonesideandtheother
may
havetocourt
you
witha
higher
bid.
Or,
like
Castruccio,
you
can
appear
to
takeboth
sides,
then
play
the
antagonistsagainst
eachother.
Dftentimes
whenaconflictbreaks
out,
you
are
tempted
to
sidewith
the
strongerparty,
ortheonethatoffers
you
apparent
advantages
inanal-
THEPliltlliOFE'\'\"Y
Whilea
poor
woman
stoodinthemarker-
placesellingcheeses,
(1
catcame
along
and
carried
offu
cheese.A
dog
sawthe
pilferer
and
Iried
tolakethe
cheese
awayfrom
him.
Thecatstood
up
lathe
dog.
So
theypitched
intoeachother.The
dog
barkedand
mapped;
the
ca!
spa:
and
scratched,
but
they
could
bring
thebattle
tonodecision,
“Let's
go
tothe
fox
and
havehim
referee
the
mailer,"
thecat
finally
suggested.
“Agreed,
"
saidthe
dog.
So
they
wen!Inthe
fox.
The
fox
listenedtotheir
arguments
with
ajurli~
ciausair.
“Foolish
animals,"
he
chidedthem,
“why
carry
onlikethat?
If
both
ofyou
are
willing,
I'll
divide
thecheesein
twoand
you’ll
bothbe
satisfied.
"
“/lgrecrl.
"saiddie
cut
andthe
dog.
50 the
fax
tookouthis
knife
andcuttheltheese
in
two,
but,instead
of
czuting
it
lengthwise,
he‘
Cutitinthewidth.
"Mylmlfis
smaller!"
protested
the
dog.
The
for
looked
judi-
ciouslythrough
his
.s'pectarle.r
atthe
dog's
share,
"You're
right,quite
right!"
hedecided.
Sohewentandbit
off
a
pieceofrhe
catk
share.
“Thatwillmakeit
evem”'hesaid.
Whenthecm‘sawwhat
Ihe
fox
didshe
began
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