PARTI:USEDECOYEDOBJECTS
OFDESIREANDREDHERRINGSTOTHROWPEOPLEOFFTHESCENTIfat
any
pointinthedeceptionyoupracticepeople
havetheslightestsuspi-
eionasto
your
intentions,
allislost.Donotgive
themthechancetosensewhat
youare
upto: Throwthem
offtheseen!bydragging
mlherrings
acrossthepath.
Usefalse
sincerity,
sendambiguoussignals,
set
upmis—
leadingobjects0}’
desire.Unabletodistinguish
thegenuinefmmthefalse,
thrgr
ccmnatpick
out
yourvealgoal.
TRANSGRESSIONOFTHELAW
Overseveralweeks,
Ninonde
Lenclos,
themostinfamouscourtesanofseventeentlrcentury
France,listenedpatiently
astheMarquis
deSevigné
explained
hisstruggles
in
pursuinga
beautifulbutdifficult
youngcountess.Ninonwas
sixty~two
atthe
time,
andmorethanexperienced
inmattersoflove;
the
marquis
wasaladof
twenty-two,handsome,
dashing,
buthope
lesslyinexperienced
inromance.AtfirstNinonwasamusedtohearthemarquis
talkabouthismistakes,
butfinally
she
had hadenough.
Unabletobear
ineptitude
in
any
realm,
leastofallinseducing
a
woman,
shedecidedtotakethe
young
manunderherwing.First,he
hadtounderstandthatthiswas
war,
andthatthebeautifulcountesswas{citadeltowhichhehadtolaysiege
ascarefully
asanygeneral.Everystep
hadtobeplanned
and
exe-cutedwiththeutmostattention
to
detailandnuance.
Instructingthemarquis
tostart
over,
Ninontoldhimtoapproach
thecountesswithabitof
distance,
anairofnonchalance.Thenexttimethe
twowerealone
together,
shesaid,
hewouldconfideinthecountessaswouldafriendbutnotva
potential
lover.Thiswastothrowher
off
thescent.The
countesswas
no
longer
totakehis
interestinherforgranted-perhaps
hewas
only
interestedinfriendship.
Ninonplanned
ahead.Oncethecountesswasconfused,
itwouldbetimetomakeher
jealous.
Atthenext
encounter,ata
majorfétein
Paris,
themarquis
wouldshow
upwithabeautiful
youngwomanathisside.Thisbeautiful
young
womanhadequally
beautiful
friends,
sothatwhereverthecountesswouldnowseethe
marquis,
hewouldbesurrounded
bythemoststunning
youngwomeninParis.Notonly
wouldthecountessbeseething
with
jealousy,
shewouldcometoseethemarquis
assomeonewhowasde-siredby
others.ItwashardforNinontomakethemarquis
understand,butshepatientlyexplained
thatawomanwho
isinterested
ina
man
wantstoseethatotherwomenareinterestedin
him,
too.Notonly
doesthatgive
himinstant
value,
itmakesitallthemoresatisfying
tosnatchhimfromtheirclutches.Oncethecountesswasjealous
butintrigued,
itwouldbetimetobe-guile
her.OnNinon’s
instructions,themarquis
would
fail
toshow
upataf-fairswherethecountessexpected
toseehim.
Then,suddenly,
hewouldappearatsalonshehadneverfrequented
before,
butthatthecountessat-LAW 3 I7