PARTI:USEDECOYED
OBJECTS
OFDESIREANDRED
HERRINGSTOTHROWPEOPLEOFFTHESCENT
If
at
any
point
inthe
deceptionyoupracticepeople
havethe
slightestsuspi-
eionasto
your
intentions,
allislost.Donot
give
themthechancetosense
what
you
are
up
to: Throwthem
off
theseen!
bydragging
ml
herrings
acrossthe
path.
Use
false
sincerity,
send
ambiguoussignals,
set
up
mis—
leadingobjects0}’
desire.Unableto
distinguish
the
genuinefmmthefalse,
thrgr
ccmnat
pick
out
your
veal
goal.
TRANSGRESSIONOFTHELAW
Overseveral
weeks,
Ninonde
Lenclos,
themostinfamouscourtesanof
seventeentlrcentury
France,
listened
patiently
asthe
Marquis
de
Sevigné
explained
his
struggles
in
pursuing
a
beautifulbutdifficult
young
countess.
Ninonwas
sixty~two
atthe
time,
andmorethan
experienced
inmattersof
love;
the
marquis
wasaladof
twenty-two,
handsome,
dashing,
but
hope
lesslyinexperienced
inromance.AtfirstNinonwasamusedtohearthe
marquis
talkabouthis
mistakes,
but
finally
she
had had
enough.
Unableto
bear
ineptitude
in
any
realm,
leastofallin
seducing
a
woman,
shedecided
totakethe
young
manunderher
wing.First,he
hadtounderstandthatthis
was
war,
andthatthebeautifulcountesswas{citadeltowhichhehadto
laysiege
as
carefully
as
anygeneral.Everystep
hadtobe
planned
and
exe-
cutedwiththeutmostattention
to
detailandnuance.
Instructing
the
marquis
tostart
over,
Ninontoldhimto
approach
the
countesswithabitof
distance,
anairofnonchalance.Thenexttimethe
twowerealone
together,
she
said,
hewouldconfideinthecountessas
wouldafriendbutnotva
potential
lover.Thiswastothrowher
off
thescent.
The
countesswas
no
longer
totakehis
interestinherfor
granted-perhaps
hewas
only
interestedin
friendship.
Ninon
planned
ahead.Oncethecountesswas
confused,
itwouldbe
timetomakeher
jealous.
Atthenext
encounter,
ata
major
fétein
Paris,
the
marquis
wouldshow
up
withabeautiful
young
womanathisside.This
beautiful
young
womanhad
equally
beautiful
friends,
sothatwhereverthe
countesswouldnowseethe
marquis,
hewouldbesurrounded
by
themost
stunning
young
womeninParis.Not
only
wouldthecountessbe
seething
with
jealousy,
shewouldcometoseethe
marquis
assomeonewhowasde-
sired
by
others.ItwashardforNinontomakethe
marquis
understand,
but
she
patientlyexplained
thatawomanwho
isinterested
ina
man
wantsto
seethatotherwomenareinterestedin
him,
too.Not
only
doesthat
give
himinstant
value,
itmakesitallthemore
satisfying
tosnatchhimfrom
theirclutches.
Oncethecountesswas
jealous
but
intrigued,
itwouldbetimetobe-
guile
her.OnNinon’s
instructions,
the
marquis
would
fail
toshow
up
ataf-
fairswherethecountess
expected
toseehim.
Then,
suddenly,
hewould
appear
atsalonshehadnever
frequented
before,
butthatthecountessat-
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