REVF.RSAL
Inthe
beginning
of
your
risetothe
top,you
must
attractattention
atall
cost,
butas
you
rise
higheryou
must
constantlyadapt.
Neverwearthe
pub-
licoutwiththesametactic.Anairof
mystery
workswondersforthosewho
needto
develop
anauraof
power
and
get
themselves
noticed,
butitmust
seemmeasuredandundercontrol.MataHariwenttoofarwithherfabri-
cations;
although
theaccusationthatshewasa
spy
was
false,
atthetimeit
wasareasonable
presumption
because
all
her
lies
madeherseem
suspi-
ciousandnefarious.Donotlet
your
airof
mystery
be
slowly
transformed
intoa
reputation
fordeceit.The
mystery
you
createmustseema
game,
playful
and
unthreatening.Recognize
whenit
goes
too
far,
and
pull
back.
Therearetimeswhenthe needforattentionmust
be
deferred,
and
whenscandaland
notoriety
arethelast
thingsyou
wanttocreate.Theat-
tention
you
attractmustneveroffendor
challenge
the
reputation
ofthose
above
you—not,
at
any
rate,
if
they
aresecure.Youwillseemnot
only
pal-
try
but
desperatebycomparison.
Thereisanartto
knowing
whentodraw
noticeandwhentowithdraw.
LolaMontezwasoneofthe
greatpractitioners
ofthe
artof
attracting
attention.She
managed
torisefromamiddle—classIrish
background
to
being
theloverofFranzLisztandthenthemistressand
political
adviserof
KingLudwig
ofBavaria.Inherlater
years,
though,
shelosthersenseof
proportion.
InLondon
in
1850 therewastobe
a
performance
of
Shakespeare’s
Macbeth
featuring
the
greatest
actorofthe
time,
Charles
john
Kean.
Every-
oneof
consequence
in
Englishsociety
wastobe
there;
itwasrumoredthat
even
Queen
VictoriaandPrinceAlbertweretomakea
publicappearance.
Thecustomofthe
period
demandedthat
everyone
beseatedbeforethe
queen
anived.Sotheaudience
got
therealittle
early,
andwhenthe
queen
enteredher
royal
box,
they
observedtheconventionof
standingup
and
applauding
her.The
royalcouple
waited,
thenbowed.
Everyone
satdown
andthe
lights
weredimmed.
Then,
suddenly,
all
eyes
turnedtoabox
op-
positeQueen
Victoria’s:Awoman
appeared
fromthe
shadows,
taking
her
seatlaterthanthe
queen.
ItwasLolaMontez.Sheworea
diamond
tiaraon
herdarkhairanda
long
furcoatoverhershoulders.
Peoplewhispered
in
amazementastheerminecloakwas
dropped
torevealalow-necked
gown
ofcrimsonvelvet.
By
turning
their
heads,
theaudiencecouldseethatthe
royalcoupledeliberately
avoided
looking
atLola’sbox.
They
followed
Victoria’s
example,
andfortherestofthe
evening
LolaMontezwas
ig-
nored.
After
that
evening
no
oneinfashionable
society
daredtobeseen
withher.Allher
magneticpowers
werereversed.
People
wouldfleeher
sight.
Herfuturein
England
wasfinished.
Never
appearoverlygreedy
for
attention,then,
forit
signalsinsecurity,
and
insecurity
drives
poweraway.
Understandthattherearetimeswhenit
isnotin
your
interestto
be
thecenter
of
attention.Wheninthe
presence
of
a
king
or
queen,
for
instance,
orthe
equivalent
thereof,
bowandretreatto
the
shadows;
never
compete.
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