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TheSee-
saw.
Up
and
down
and
up
anddown
go
the
arguers,
getting
nowhere
fast.Getoffthe
seesawandshow
them
your
mean
ing
withoutkick
ing
or
pushing.
Leave
thematthe
top
andlet
gravity
bring
them
gently
to the
ground.
Authority:
Never
argue.
In
societynothing
mustbedis
cussed;
give
only
results.
(Benjamin
Disraeli,
1804-1881)
REVERSAL
Verbal
argument
hasonevitaluseintherealmof
power:
Todistract
and
cover
your
trackswhen
you
are
practicingdeception
orare
caught
inalie.
Insuchcasesitisto
youradvantage
to
argue
withalltheconviction
you
can
muster.Drawtheother
person
into
an
argument
todistractthemfmm
yourdeceptive
move.When
caught
ina
lie,
themoreemotionalandcer-
tain
you
appear,
theless
likely
itseemsthat
you
are
lying.
This
technique
hassavedthehideof
many
aconartist.OnceCount
Victor
Lustig,
swindle:
par
excellence,
hadsolddozensofsuckersaround
the
country
a
phony
boxwithwhichheclaimedtobeableto
copymoney.
Discovering
their
mistake,
thesuckers
generally
chosenotto
go
the
police,
ratherthanrisktheembarrassmentof
publicity.
But
oneSherifi
Richards,