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the attachment prism, we’ve come to appreciate secure people’s talents and
abilities. The goofy Homer Simpson- like colleague whom we barely
noticed was suddenly transformed into a guy with impressive relationship
talent who treats his wife admirably, and our get-a-life neighbor suddenly
became a perceptive, caring person who keeps the entire family emotionally
in check. But not all secure people are homebodies or goofy. You are not
settling by going secure! Secures come in all shapes and forms. Many are
good-looking and sexy. Whether plain or gorgeous, we’ve learned to
appreciate them all for what they really are—the “super-mates” of evolution
—and we hope that you will too.