INDEX
abnormal relationship
admitting there’s a problem
deactivating strategies (prior to breakup)
distress after breakup
examples
Marsha and Craig as opposing forces
Marsha and Craig story
partner as “the enemy,”
rebound effect
relentless deactivating strategies
royal treatment v.
“smoking guns” of
temptation of returning to
using sex
abundance philosophy
accepting attitude
activating strategies
ADP. See attachment-designated person
affection
avoiding
“cuddle hormone,”
secure person’s
universal need for closeness
Affective Neuroscience Laboratory, University of Virginia
aggression
Ainsworth, Mary
anger
bottled up
bread-and-butter conflicts
can fighting make you happier?