secure principles for making conflict work
hypothalamus
“I love you,” withheld
idealized relationship
“the one” who is never you
ignoring, as protest behavior
independence, self-reliance mistaken for
indifference. See also avoidant attachment style
infant-parent bonding
secure mother’s
inner circle
secure person’s
treated like “the enemy,”
insecure attachment style, difficulty with communicating needs. See also
anxious attachment style; avoidant attachment style
insecure people
difficulty with secure resolution principles
strategies to avoid
insecurity
intimacy differences. See also specific attachment styles
in anxious-avoidant trap
in Golden Rules
Into the Wild (Krakauer)
issue identifying
jealousy
flirting
intentionally inciting
Johnson, Sue
Keelan, Patrick