of your gratitude and find a way to compliment them for their compliment.
A few examples:
She says, I like those shoes. You say, Oh Im so happy you told me. I just
got them.
He says, You really did a good job on this project. You say, Oh, thats so
nice of you to tell me. I appreciate your positive feedback.
You can also Boomerang the good feelings back when people ask you a
question about your family, a project, an event, or anthing that shows they
are interested in you.
Your colleague asks, How was your vacation in Hawaii? You answer,
Oh, you remembered I went to Hawaii! It was great, thanks.
Your boss asks, Are you over your cold now? You answer, I appreciate
your concern. I feel much better now.
Whenever someone shines a little sunshine on your life in the form of a
compliment or concerned question, reflect it back on the shiner.
Incidently, in that seminar, I decided to do womankind a favor by
setting malekind straight on compliments once and for all. I asked the
fellow who swore women hated praise to give three women sitting near him
a sincere compliment. He chose the woman with the beautiful silver hair
sitting behind him, the girl
Technique #58
Boomeranging
Just as a boomerang flies right back to the thrower, let compliments
boomerang right back to the giver. Like the French, quickly murmur
something that expresses Thats very kind of you.
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with the hands like a pianist to his left, and the lady with the lovely
deep-blue eyes on his right. He told them all.
Three women waltzed out of the room that night feeling a litle better
about themselves than when they walked in. And, I hope, for all the women
he would yet meet in his life, one man left with a changed attitude about
compliments.
As we come to the end of our exploration of praise, I want to make sure
youre aiming dead center for peoples hearts. Whether youre giving little
Carrier Pigeon Kudos or laying a Killer Copliment on your conversation
partner, this next technique keeps you on target.
How to Make a Loved One Feel You Are THE Partner for Life
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