How_to_Talk_to_Anyone_92_Little_Tricks_for_Big_Success_in_Relationships

Now, heres the pi�ce de rŽsistance. Next to your face, your wrists and
palms are one of the most expressive parts of your body. Palms up speak
volumes of good sentiments.
The Popes wrists and palms are up when he beckons Come unto me my
brethren. The burglars wrists and palms are up when he says, I give up, dont
shoot. The innocent mans wrists and palms are up when hes saying, I dont
know who took the money. Vulnerable, open palms signify I have nothing
to hide.
They also signify acceptance. When you are listening to a business
colleague to whom you want to signal acceptance, make sure your wrists
and palms are up. Even if youre resting your head on your chin, turn your
wrists forward. Whenever you are chating with anyone, give yourself a
constant hand check. Make sure you dont point your knuckles directly
toward anyone. Let them have the pleasure of seeing the soft, tender come
hither skin of your wrists and palms, not the wrinkled go away hide on your
knuckles.
Romance on your mind? Ladies, let your hands do some taling for you.
Women instinctively turn their wrists and palms upward when a man
excites them. (In fact, the ol wrist flash while talking with males
subconsciously gives them a sexy jolt.)
Pave a Clear Path for People Who Find You Special
Frightened little jungle cats crouch behind rocks and logs so no bigger
animals will spot them. In the social jungle, shy people do the same. They
instinctively seek out corners and sit in seats where they wont be seen.
Technique #74
Come-Hither Hands
Be a human magnet, not a human repellent. When standing at a
gathering, arrange your body in an open positionespecially your arms and
hands. People instinctively gravitate toward open palms and wrists
seductively arranged in the come hither position. They shy away from
knuckles in the get lost or Ill punch you position. Use your wrists and palms
to say I have nothing to hide, I accept you and what youre saying, or I find
you sexy.
Whereas lynxes and lions stroll confidently to the center of the jungle
clearing, human big cats in the social jungle also stand confidently in a
clearing so others can see them. Like a politician, position yourself near a
doorway since everyone must pass your way at some point in the evening.