Well, well, well, Carla cried out, a big smile erupting all over her face.
Carla turned toward him. Carla kneeled down, touched little Willies elbow,
and crooned, Well, hello there, Willie. How are you enjoying Mommys nice
party?
Little Willie beamed.
When little Willie finally trundled off to tug on the garments of the next
group of potential attention givers, Carla and I returned to our grown-up
conversing. During our chat, corporate beasts continued to stalk Carla with
their eyes and she continued casting half smiles at them. She was obviously
disappointed none of them was making a further approach. I had to bite my
tongue. Finally, when I felt it was going to bleed from the pressure of my
teeth, I said, Carla, have you been noticing that four or five men have come
over and smiled at you.
Yes, Carla whispered, her eyes darting nervously around the room lest
anyone overhear us.
And youve been giving them little half smiles, I continued. Yes, she
murmured, now confused at my question. Remember when little Willie
came up and tugged on your
skirt? Do you recall how you smiled that beautiful big smile of yours,
turned toward him, and welcomed him into our grown-up conversation?
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Yee-es, she answered haltingly.
Well, I have a request, Carla. I want you to give the next man who
smiles at you that same big smile you gave Willie. I want you to turn
toward him just like you did then. Maybe even reach out and touch his arm
like you did Willies, and then welcome him into our conversation.
Oh Leil, I couldnt do that.
Carla, do it! Sure enough, within a few minutes, another attractive man
wandered our way and smiled. Carla played her role to perfection. She
flashed her beautiful teeth, turned fully toward him, and said, Hello, come
join us. He wasted no time acceping Carlas invitation.
After a few moments, I excused myself. Neither noticed my departure
because they were in animated conversation. The last glimpse I had of my
friend at the party was her floating out the door on the arm of her new
friend.
Just then the technique I call The Big-Baby Pivot was born. It is a skill
that will help you win whatever your heart desires from whatever type of
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