You now have the skills necessary to get you started on the right foot
with any new person in your life. Think of yourself in
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Technique #9
Watch the Scene Before You Make the Scene
Rehearse being the Super Somebody you want to be ahead of time. SEE
yourself walking around with Hang by Your Teeth posture, shaking hands,
smiling the Flooding Smile, and making Sticky Eyes. HEAR youself
chatting comfortably with everyone. FEEL the pleasure of knowing you are
in peak form and everyone is gravitating toward you. VISUALIZE yourself
a Super Somebody. Then it all happens automatically.
these first moments like a rocket taking off. When the folks at Cape
Kennedy aim a spacecraft for the moon, a mistake in the millionth of a
degree at the beginning, when the craft is still on the ground, means missing
the moon by thousands of miles. Likwise, a tiny body-language blooper at
the outset of a relationship may mean you will never make a hit with that
person. But with The Flooding Smile, Sticky Eyes, Epoxy Eyes, Hang by
Your Teeth, The Big-Baby Pivot, Hello Old Friend, Limit the Fidget, Hanss
Horse Sense, and Watch the Scene Before You Make the Scene, youll be
right on course to get whatever you eventually want from anybodybe it
business, friendship, or love.
We now move from the silent world to the spoken word.
ooja
(Ooja)
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