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Am I overly sensitive to criticism? Yes / No
Do I subconsciously seek and need approval? Yes / No
Was I allowed to be my true self? Yes / No
Was I celebrated for who I am? Yes / No
Did I have to earn approval or my worth? Yes / No
Did I always feel like I was walking on eggshells? Yes / No
Did I frequently feel shame and anxiety? Yes / No
Did I feel deeply unwanted? Yes / No
Do I now struggle with self-loathing and destructive patterns? Yes / No
Do I blame myself for what happened in my home? Yes / No
Am I frequently overwhelmed with unknown grief? Yes / No
Is it hard to shake off my low self-confidence? Yes / No
Do I overachieve to compensate for an emotionally troubled childhood? Yes / No
Am I always laughing, trying to make everyone comfortable? Yes / No
Do I tend to people-please? Yes / No
Am I really afraid of disappointing people? Yes / No
Do I feel responsible for “fixing” a parent? Yes / No
Do I feel like I must have deserved the severe punishment? Yes / No
Did I have to work to get noticed? Yes / No
Did I try really hard not to get anyone angry? Yes / No
Did I have to entertain to appease a depressed or enraged parent? Yes / No
Did I face excessive criticism frequently? Yes / No
Am I hesitant to talk about my past/family/childhood? Yes / No
Am I pushing childhood memories aside? Yes / No
Am I overly sentimental about the past? Yes / No
Do I not actually remember much about my childhood? Yes / No
Am I afraid if I open up, I might break down from feeling too much? Yes / No
Do I sometimes experience debilitating depression? Yes / No
Do I struggle with crippling social anxiety at times? Yes / No
Do I struggle with deep, lasting emotional connection with most people? Yes / No
Do I feel critically damaged as a person? Yes / No
Getting Therapy, Help,
Self-growth Work
A Few Ways They Can Help
- They can help your unconscious
feelings become conscious. - Alone, we can’t always see what we
deeply long for. - On our own, we can’t always see what
we’re really terrified by. - You can deal with the ghosts of the
past so they can finally rest. - They can give us an emotional
understanding of the past. - They can help us to finally gain a
sense of self-love, forgiveness, insight
and repair. - They can give us healthy skills for
self-soothing. - They can help us understand our
interpretations and ideas we made
as children.
Recovering from
Your Childhood
forgiveness
Identifying Trauma
Still in Your Body
Circle
yes or no
Self-love
Repair
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