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techniques such as ‘rewind’ have been
shown to be particularly effective.”


  1. Self-hypnosis: “Self-hypnosis
    can simply be used to access a more
    relaxed state, that can help to quell
    anticipatory anxiety and be used as a
    tool when actually on a flight.”


Combining these techniques
(which work on the subconscious
mind) with education about the
mechanics of flying (which work on
the conscious mind), and you have
all bases covered.

PREPARING FOR TAKE-OFF
If you have a flight coming up, and
you’re keen to try hypnotherapy
before then, be sure to give yourself
enough time for a number of
sessions. Harry says that it normally
takes three or four to cover the
therapeutic and practical techniques,
along with the technical knowledge.

“With hypnotherapy, you can
reprogramme your old or unwanted
behaviour patterns and create
new, more positive ones. In the
hypnotic state, you accept beneficial
suggestions that allow you to change
your attitude so that you can do the
things you want to do – or not do the
things you don’t want to do.”


HOW HYPNOTHERAPY CAN HELP
Hypnotherapy is a versatile tool
and can be used in different
ways, depending on individual
circumstances.
The basic premise is that when we
are in a hypnotic state (akin to deep
relaxation) our subconscious is more
open to suggestion. Harry talks us
through some common techniques
that may be used to help address a
fear of flying:



  1. Encouraging a more positive
    mindset: “The fearful flyer is
    likely to have experienced years
    of negative rumination about
    the dire consequences of flying



  • hypnotherapy is a great way to
    replace this mindset with positive
    rehearsal scenarios.”



  1. Uncovering the root cause:
    “Using hypnosis as an ‘uncovering’
    method can help you to discover –
    and then resolve – the initial event
    that caused the phobia in the first
    place.”

  2. NLP (Neuro-linguistic
    programming) techniques: “If a
    trauma was responsible, then NLP


Your therapist should also share
some techniques to help after your
sessions are over.
“A good hypnotherapist will
also provide some ‘first-aid’ tools
for their clients to employ on the
flight, such as ‘anchoring’ routines
set during hypnosis, breathing
techniques, and structured exercises
designed to occupy the mind and
prevent further release of stress
hormones.”
Fear and anxiety shouldn’t be
something we’re ashamed of. Talking
about your fears is the first step to
finding support, and while you may
never love the experience of flying,
there are ways you can learn to cope
with anxiety and take back control.
Consider it a chance to sit in the
pilot’s seat of your own life. You get to
choose which direction to go, which
mountains to fly over, and which new
places to explore... without fear as
your co-pilot.

Learn about hypnotherapy and how it can support
you at hypnotherapy-directory.org.uk. To discover
Harry Holbrook’s fear of flying packages (both
online or face-to-face) visit myfearofflying.co.uk

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