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In Santiago, the most famous and expensive motel is the
Valdivia downtown. It is customary for newlyweds to go there
for their honeymoon. Motels are openly recognised for what
they are and are used as landmarks. Laura once lived two
houses away from a motel and everyone, from old ladies to
children, knew where it was. Of course, most raised their
eyebrows and joked about her being able to see whose cars
went in and out.
Alternative Lifestyles
Chile is still a conservative country and while homosexuality
may be gaining acceptance, it is slow in coming. Many
Chileans, primarily those over the age of 40, maintain
attitudes that are stuck in the past. The non-judgmental
term, homosexual, is almost never used by Chileans, who
seem to prefer the derogatory maricón or fleto. The neutral
English term ‘gay’ is being used more frequently. Among the
younger generations there is less outright condemnation,
but there are whispers and pointing. With the exception of
artists, gays remain in the closet. It would be rare to meet
an openly gay couple. However, the gay and lesbian scene
is quietly active and growing. There are a number of clubs
throughout Santiago where gays and lesbians can go have
fun and feel comfortable and safe.
Rituals
One of the most interesting things about living abroad is to
see how others celebrate the same important moments in
life. Hopefully, you’ll be invited to share one of these special
occasions with new friends. Many of the rituals that Chileans
observe are religious in nature and are based on long-standing
traditions. Even Chileans who do not attend church services
on a regular basis celebrate major events in the church, such
as baptisms, weddings and funerals.
Baptism
When a child is approximately six months old, he or she will
be baptised. In the cities, this is a relatively quiet affair. The
child is baptised by a priest in the parent’s parish church
