Socialising 77example, hairstyles. If you are unfortunate enough to get a
really bad haircut, no one will lie to make you feel better. A
friend was once asked if someone had cut his hair with an
axe. Although he understood Chilean culture quite well and
knew it was not meant as an insult, he was nevertheless hurt
by her candid remarks. The same Chilean also told him that
a friend of his was quite ugly. The best advice is to just ignore
the comment because there is no malice intended.
On the other hand, you’ll know that a compliment is
heartfelt and not meant to make you feel better. Chileans
can also be equally blunt about your Spanish-speaking
capabilities, although they will continuously encourage you
to practice and are more than willing to help. Chileans are
flattered when a foreigner attempts to learn Spanish and they
often excitedly explain the intricacies of Chilean slang.
It is not acceptable to discuss salaries unless you are among
very close friends. It is fine to ask how much an impersonal
item cost, such as a major appliance, but you should refrain
from asking about the cost of more personal items such as
jewellery. Chileans are more relaxed when discussing rent.
Rude Behaviour
Always cover your mouth while yawning. Holding your hand
palm up, fingers curled as if you’re holding an apple is an
extremely insulting and obscene gesture. Chewing gum is
not appropriate in a formal situation. Hats should never be
worn indoors and it is rude to walk around barefoot inside
someone’s home. According to superstition, a woman
should never set her purse on the floor as this will cause
her to lose money.
Do not expect to watch television when visiting Chileans in
their home. Upon entering the living room you may be struck
by the feeling that something is missing. In most Chilean
homes, televisions are in the bedrooms. Living rooms are
for visiting only. If you become close friends with someone,
you may be invited into the bedroom to watch television.
This invitation, in most instances, is perfectly innocent and
should not be misconstrued. Larger new homes now include
a family room, where a common TV can be found.