Real Communication An Introduction

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situations, you need to listen for information; in others, you must listen for ideas,
emotions, or enjoyment. You listen to comprehend, to evaluate, to communicate
empathy, and to appreciate (Steil, Barker, & Watson, 1983). And sometimes you
listen with all these goals in mind.

Informational Listening
When you listen to a weather report on the radio, attend a lecture, or hear the
details of your significant other’s day at work, your primary goal is to understand
what’s being said. Through this process of informational listening (sometimes
referred to as comprehensive listening), you seek to understand a message. As a
student, you use informational listening extensively to understand concepts and
information your instructors are presenting to you. Anyone giving you directions,
providing instructions, or telling a story all require informational listening
from you.
Questions are important aids to informational listening. Through questioning
techniques, you coordinate what the speaker is saying with what you are hearing.
Asking such questions signals that you are listening; it also indicates to the
speaker that you are tuned in and interested. Questions can also help a speaker
become more effective by getting to the points that will do the listener the most
good.

Critical Listening
Most listening is informational, but we sometimes need to go a step further—to
making a judgment about a message we’re hearing. When you evaluate or ana-
lyze information, evidence, ideas, or opinions, you engage in critical listening
(sometimes called evaluative listening). This type of listening is valuable when
you cannot take a message at face value. Most of us probably need to employ this

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When listening for informa-
tional purposes, you may
ask primary and secondary
questions, which first seek
information and then clarify
the speaker’s message
(see the Interviewing
Appendix). Secondary
questions are particularly
useful in job interviews
because they show the
interviewer that you are
an engaged listener who
desires to learn more
specific information
about the position and
organization.


Type
Informational

Critical

Empathic

Appreciative

Description
Listening to
understand, learn,
realize, or recognize
Listening to judge,
analyze, or evaluate

Listening to provide
therapy, comfort, and
sympathy

Listening for enjoy-
ment of what is being
presented

Strategies
Listen for main ideas or details;
take speaker’s perspective; use
memory effectively
Determine speaker’s goal;
evaluate source of message;
question logic, reasoning, and
evidence of message
Focus on speaker’s perspective;
give supportive feedback; show
caring; demonstrate patience;
avoid judgment; focus on
speaker’s goal
Remove physical and time
distractions; know more about
originator (author, artist, com-
poser); explore new appreciative
listening opportunities

TABLE 6.1

LISTENING GOALS

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