Real Communication An Introduction

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dormitory, one student might unofficially fill the role of “hall parent”—mentor-
ing freshmen, listening compassionately to people’s problems, and making every-
one feel secure. Consider these additional examples of social roles (Anderson,
Riddle, & Martin, 1999; Benne & Sheats, 1948; Salazar, 1996):


c A harmonizer seeks to smooth over tension in the group by settling differ-


ences among members and working out compromises when conflict arises
(“There is only one communal TV lounge per floor, so can we plan on
reserving the first-floor lounge for people who want to watch the football
game on Sunday, and leaving the second floor free for people who want to
watch the Golden Globe Awards?”).

c A gatekeeper works to ensure that each member of the group gets a chance
to voice their opinions or otherwise contribute to discussions. (“Tonya, we
haven’t heard from you yet on the issue of overnight guests in our dorm.
What are your thoughts?”).


c A sensor expresses group feelings, moods, or relationships in an effort to
recognize the climate and capitalize on it or modify it for the better (“I feel
like tempers are getting a little short right now—maybe we ought to break
for dinner, and meet back here in an hour to continue this discussion when
we’re all feeling less hungry?”).


Each member in a group can play task and social roles, and the roles
can be official or unofficial. For example, Evelyn is the dorm’s resident advi-
sor, officially tasked with maintaining harmony among the students who live
there. But Mike is also an unofficial harmonizer because he has a knack for
mitigating tensions between people. Mike also has a lot of ideas for events,
so he frequently finds himself acting as an initiator during meetings. Mem-
bers like Mike can move into or out of such personal or task roles depending
on whether the role is needed and whether others in the group are willing to
fill it.


Antigroup Roles


Unlike task and social roles, antigroup roles create problems because they serve
individual members’ priorities at the expense of group needs. You’ve probably
seen evidence of these antigroup roles in the groups you belong to:


c A blocker indulges in destructive communication, including opposing or


criticizing all ideas and stubbornly reintroducing an idea after the group
has already rejected or bypassed it (“None of the dates any of you proposed
will work for the party. It really needs to be five weeks from today, as I
said earlier”).

c An avoider refuses to engage in the group’s proceedings by expressing cyni-


cism or nonchalance toward ideas presented or by joking or changing the
subject (“Well, whatever, I’m guessing it’s not a big deal if this party doesn’t
even happen, right?”).

c A recognition seeker calls attention to himself or herself by boasting or by


going on and on about his or her qualifications or personal achievements

CONNECT


Competent leadership can
address problematic anti-
group roles. As you learn
in Chapter 10, a directive
leader might lay out tasks
to thwart a distracter; a
supportive leader might
thank each member for
his or her contributions,
preventing a recognition
seeker from claiming the
glory. Leaders have the
power to affect norms and
roles by encouraging group
members to make produc-
tive contributions.
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