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THE NEW YORK TIMES OBITUARIESMONDAY, JUNE 29, 2020 N B11

Charles Webb, who wrote the
1963 novel “The Graduate,” the
basis for the hit 1967 film, and then
spent decades running from its
success, died on June 16 in East
Sussex, England. He was 81.
A spokesman for his son John
confirmed the death, in a hospital,
but did not specify the cause.
Mr. Webb’s novel, written
shortly after college and based
largely on his relationship with his
wife, Eve Rudd, was made into an
era-defining film, directed by
Mike Nichols and starring Dustin
Hoffman and Anne Bancroft, that
gave voice to a generation’s youth-
ful rejection of materialism. Mr.
Webb and his wife, both born into
privilege, carried that rejection
well beyond youth, choosing to
live in poverty and giving away
whatever money came their way,
even as the movie’s acclaim con-
tinued to follow them.
“My whole life has been meas-
ured by it,” he told the British
newspaper The Telegraph in 2007,
when the couple were living in a
drab hotel room paid for by British
social services.
Mr. Webb published eight
books, including a sequel to “The
Graduate,” “Home School” (2007),
in which the main characters,
Benjamin and Elaine, are grown
up and teaching their children
themselves. He agreed to publish
it only to pay off a 30,000-pound
debt, said Jack Malvern, a Times
of London reporter who was
friendly with Mr. Webb and helped
with that deal.
“He had a very odd relationship
with money,” said Caroline Daw-
nay, who was briefly Mr. Webb’s
agent in the early 2000s when his
novel “New Cardiff” was made
into the 2003 movie “Hope
Springs,” starring Colin Firth. “He
never wanted any. He had an an-
archist view of the relationship be-
tween humanity and money.”
He gave away homes, paint-
ings, his inheritance, even his roy-
alties from “The Graduate,” which
became a million-seller after the
movie’s success, to the benefit of
the Anti-Defamation League. He
awarded his 10,000-pound payout
from “Hope Springs” as a prize to
a performance artist named Dan
Shelton, who had mailed himself
to the Tate Modern in a cardboard
box.
At his second wedding to Ms.
Rudd — they married in 1962, then


divorced in 1981 to protest the in-
stitution of marriage, then remar-
ried around 2001 for immigration
purposes — he did not give his
bride a ring, because he disap-
proved of jewelry. Ms. Dawnay,
the only witness save two strang-
ers pulled in off the street, recalled
that the couple walked nine miles
to the registry office for the cere-
mony, wearing the only clothes
they owned.
Lots of people momentarily em-
brace the idea of leaving the rat
race, like the characters in “The
Graduate.” Mr. Webb and Ms.
Rudd did it, with all the conse-
quences it entailed. If they regret-
ted the choice, they did not say so.
“When you run out of money it’s
a purifying experience,” Mr. Webb
told The Times of London after the
couple moved to England. “It fo-
cuses the mind like nothing else.”
Charles Richard Webb was
born on June 9, 1939, in San Fran-
cisco, and grew up in Pasadena,
Calif. His father, Dr. Richard
Webb, was a heart specialist, part
of a wealthy social circle like the
one Charles would skewer in “The
Graduate.” (Charles described his
relationship with his father as

“reasonably bad.”) His mother,
Janet Farrington Webb, was, he
said, a socialite and an avid reader
from whom he “was always look-
ing for crumbs of approval.” He
said “The Graduate” was an at-
tempt to win her favor; it went de-
cidedly wrong.
A younger brother, Sidney Far-
rington Webb, became a doctor in
Las Cruces, N.M.
Charles went to boarding school
and then to Williams College in
Massachusetts, where he earned
a degree in American history and
literature in 1961. He said his
schools had been “chosen” for him
“on the basis of how it looked.” A
mediocre student, he nonetheless
managed to win a two-year writ-
ing fellowship, which he used to
write “The Graduate.”
While at Williams, he met Ms.
Rudd, a Bennington College stu-
dent. She was a former debutante
from a family of teachers with a
bohemian streak — her brother
was the avant-garde jazz trom-
bonist Roswell Rudd — and they
both rejected the bourgeois
worlds of their families. Their first
date, they told interviewers, was
in a cemetery.
Their romance, and her moth-
er’s disapproval of him, became
the basis for “The Graduate.” The
inspiration for the character Mrs.
Robinson, who seduces young
Benjamin, may have come from
one of his parents’ friends, whom
he accidentally saw naked.
Reviewing the book in The
Times, Orville Prescott called it a
“fictional failure” but favorably
compared its protagonist to Hold-
en Caulfield of “The Catcher in the
Rye.”
With its mumbling ennui and
conversations that do not connect,
the novel captured the moment
just before the repressed Eisen-
hower era blossomed into the
Technicolor 1960s. The characters
are not idealistic; they’re groping
for ideals, their flight from their
parents’ values and lifestyles
more solitary than collective. In
the last pages, Benjamin and
Elaine are alone on a bus, shaken,
heading into a future that is
opaque to them. Hello darkness,
my old friend.
So began the iconoclastic jour-
ney of Charles and Eve, who later
adopted the single name Fred, in
solidarity with a self-help group
for men with low self-esteem. De-
spite her parents’ intervention the
couple married, then later sold

their wedding gifts back to the
guests and donated the money to
charity.
“Their wedding was a total con-
tradiction to the way they ended
up living,” Priscilla Rudd Wolf,
Eve’s sister, said in an email. “It
was a big wedding; my sister
wore a white bridal gown; I was
maid of honor. It was in the Salis-
bury School Chapel, where my
parents taught, and the whole
town was there.” She added:
“They seemed like a typical all-
American couple off to a typical
all-American life. But that wasn’t
to be.”
Shedding their possessions be-
came a full-time mission. They
gave away a California bungalow,
the first of three houses they
would jettison, saying that owning
things oppressed them.
Mr. Webb declined his inher-
itance from his father’s family but
was unable to decline the money
from his mother’s; so they gave
that away, along with artwork by
Andy Warhol, Roy Lichtenstein
and Robert Rauschenberg.
As the 1960s bloomed, the cou-
ple underwent gestalt therapy.
Fred, a painter, hosted a one-wom-
an show in the nude as a feminist
statement. She shaved her head
— in order, she said, to shed the
oppressive demands of feminine
adornment.
They moved to California and
then back east to a dilapidated
house in Hastings-on-Hudson,
N.Y., in Westchester County, and
had two sons, John and David.

Mr. Webb followed “The Gradu-
ate” with “Love, Roger” (1969)
and “The Marriage of a Young
Stockbroker” (1970), which
Lawrence Turman, who produced
“The Graduate,” turned into a
movie starring Richard Benjamin.
It fizzled. Critics compared his lat-
er books unfavorably with his de-
but.
He refused to do book signings,
Ms. Dawnay said, viewing them
as “a sin against decency.”
In the late 1970s the couple
moved back to the West Coast and
took their sons out of school,
choosing to home-school them,
which was not sanctioned at the
time. So the family moved around,
at one point living in a Volks-
wagen bus, driving from one
campground to another. In a 1992
interview with The Washington
Post, John Webb called that part
of his education “unschooling.”
Charles Webb worked menial
jobs: clerk at a Kmart, itinerant
farmworker, house cleaner. The
couple were caretakers at a nudist
colony in New Jersey, earning
$198 a week.
Mr. Webb complained about be-
ing tied to “The Graduate,” but in
the early 1990s he wrote a sequel,
“Gwen,” narrated by Benjamin
and Elaine’s daughter. Benjamin
works at a Kmart and as a janitor
at his old school, finding liberation
in giving up his material trappings
to serve others.
“Gwen” was never published;
Mr. Webb went nearly 25 years be-
tween books before “New Cardiff,”

in 2001.
By then the couple were living
in England — they had moved
there, he said, so he could try writ-
ing an English character — and
their sons were grown.
Ms. Dawnay, who visited the
couple in Brighton, said they lived
with almost no furniture and only
one change of clothes. Though
“New Cardiff” was warmly re-
ceived, it did not revive Mr.
Webb’s career, nor did the “Gradu-
ate” sequel he finally did publish,
“Home School.”
Fred, Mr. Webb’s wife, died in
2019, Mr. Malvern said, leaving
him quite alone, although he is
survived by his sons — David, a
performance artist who once
cooked a copy of “The Graduate”
and ate it with cranberry sauce,
and John, a director at the consult-
ing and research firm IHS Markit
— and his brother. Mr. Malvern
said he did not know whether Mr.
Webb had still been writing.
Mr. Webb’s death brings to a
close a decades-long experiment
that was less a retreat than an at-
tempt to change the terms of en-
gagement between artists and the
world.
As he once told The Boston
Globe, “The public’s praise of cre-
ative people is a mask — a mask
for jealousy or hatred.” By the cou-
ple’s various renunciations, he
said, “We hope to make the point
that the creative process is really
a defense mechanism on the part
of artists — that creativity is not a
romantic notion.”

Charles Webb, Mrs. Robinson Creator


Turned Off by Success, Is Dead at 81


Mr. Webb in the 1990s with his wife, Ms. Rudd, who adopted the name Fred. Mr. Webb com-
plained about being tied to “The Graduate,” but in the early 1990s he wrote a sequel, “Gwen.”

Charles Webb’s romance with ANDREW HASSON/ALAMY
Eve Rudd, and her mother’s
disapproval of him, became
the basis for “The Graduate.”

By JOHN LELAND

Born into privilege,


rejecting materialism


and living in poverty.


Linda Cristal, an Argentine-
born actress who played Victoria,
the regal, fiery wife of the rancher
Big John Cannon on the 1960s
television series “The High Chap-
arral,” died on Saturday at her
home in Beverly Hills, Calif. She
was 89.
Her death was confirmed by
her son Jordan Wexler, who said
she died in her sleep.
Ms. Cristal had made nearly a
dozen films in Mexico before ar-
riving in Hollywood to take her
first English-speaking role, in the
Dana Andrews film “Comanche”
(1956), playing the kidnapped
daughter of a Spanish aristocrat
in Mexico. She went on to make
several westerns before appear-
ing in Blake Edwards’s knock-
about comedy “The Perfect Fur-
lough” (1958).
For her performance in that
movie as Sandra Roca, “the Ar-
gentine Bombshell ” — the dream
date chosen by the serviceman
Tony Curtis in an Army publicity
stunt — Ms. Cristal won the “New
Star of the Year” award at the
Golden Globes, an honor she
shared with Tina Louise and Su-
san Kohner.
After a modest film career, fol-
lowed by guest roles on television,
Ms. Cristal auditioned for “The
High Chaparral,” a western devel-
oped by David Dortort, the cre-
ator and producer of “Bonanza.”
In her telling, it was a memorable
occasion.


“The scene they handed me to
read was all tenderness and
sweetness, and I knew they were
looking for a heroine with fire and
spunk,” Ms. Cristal told The Bos-
ton Globe in 1968. “So I asked
them if I could throw away the
script and just improvise.”
She went full-throttle. “I made
up stories showing love, hate, pas-
sion, envy, jealousy, etc.,” she said.
“I tried a scene as a street walker.
I was a mother who had lost a son
in the war. Before I was through, I
had taken off my hat, my shoes
and even my jacket. In my intensi-
ty I was all over these people,
roughing them up. But I walked
out with the contract.”
The series ran from 1967 to 1971,
with Ms. Cristal playing the
daughter of Don Sebastián Mon-
toya, a powerful rancher on the
Mexican side of the Arizona bor-
der.
In a fusion of dynasties, she
marries Big John Cannon, played
by Leif Erickson, whose wife was
killed by an Apache arrow in the
show’s first episode. With Big
John’s son and brother, the couple
turn the High Chaparral ranch
into the headquarters of a cattle
empire, surviving conflicts with
Apaches, rustlers and Mexicans.
Ms. Cristal won a Golden Globe
in 1970 as best actress in a drama
series for her work on the show.
She was born Marta Victoria
Moya on Feb. 23, 1931, in Buenos
Aires. Her father, Antonio Moya
Bourges, was a French immigrant

who published magazines. Her
mother, the former Rosario Pego,
was Italian. In several interviews,
Ms. Cristal said that her father
came into conflict with a criminal
gang and fled with his family to
Montevideo, Uruguay. When she
was 13, both of her parents died of
carbon monoxide poisoning while
in their car.
Victoria studied voice and piano
at the conservatory and at 16 mar-
ried the Argentine actor Tito
Gómez. The marriage was an-
nulled after only a few weeks. She
thought of following the example

of her five aunts and entering a
convent, but fate intervened.
During a trip to Mexico with her
older brother, she was spotted by
the producer Miguelito Alemán,
son of Miguel Alemán, Mexico’s
president, who gave her a small
role in one of his films. She later
made eight films with the actor
and producer Raúl de Anda, using
the name Linda Cristal.
“I never became a big star, but
then I wouldn’t have been a big
nun either,” she told Look maga-
zine in 1960.
Her American film career never

gained traction. After appearing
in “The Last of the Fast Guns”
(1958), “The Fiend Who Walked
the West” (1958) and “Cry Tough”
(1959), a drama about Puerto Ri-
cans in New York, Ms. Cristal
tried to break out of Latina parts
by taking the title role in “Cleo-
patra’s Legions.”
“I was sure that picture would
do it for me,” she told Parade mag-
azine in 1960. “We shot it in Spain
and Italy. It took three months of
hard work, and it made absolutely
no sense — I mean the script —
but the picture is full of spectacu-

lar scenes with a lot of emphasis
on Cleopatra’s love life.” She add-
ed, “I figured the picture, awful as
it is, would do very well in Amer-
ica.”
Unfortunately, just as the film
was ready for release, 20th-Cen-
tury Fox announced that it had
signed Elizabeth Taylor to film
“Cleopatra.” The studio bought
Ms. Cristal’s film, renamed it “Le-
gions of the Nile” and gave it a
very limited release in late 1960. It
sank without a trace.
Ms. Cristal returned to Holly-
wood and appeared in the John
Wayne film “The Alamo,” playing
the Mexican beauty Flaca, and in
John Ford’s “Two Rode Together”
(1961),” as a kidnapped Mexican
noblewoman, with James Stew-
art.
On television she appeared on
“Rawhide,” “The Tab Hunter
Show” (as a matador), “Barnaby
Jones” and “The Love Boat.” In
her final film, she played Charles
Bronson’s love interest in “Mr.
Majestyk” (1974), based on the El-
more Leonard novel of the same
name about an embattled melon
farmer in California.
In 1988 she came out of retire-
ment to join the cast of “General
Hospital,” playing Dimitra, the
mistress of the crime boss Victor
Jerome (Jack Axelrod).
Her two marriages in the
United States ended in divorce.
Besides her son Jordan, she is sur-
vived by another son, Gregory
Wexler, and two grandchildren.

Linda Cristal, 89, TV Star


Of ‘High Chaparral’ in ’60s


Linda Cristal as Victoria Montoya Cannon in “The High Chaparral.” She won a Golden Globe in
1970 as best actress in a drama series for her work on the show. Earlier, she made films in Mexico.

BCU PHOTO BANK/NBCUNIVERSAL, VIA GETTY IMAGES

Considering entering


a convent when fate


intervened.


By WILLIAM GRIMES

Boosin, Kathryn
Gibson, June
Glaser, Milton

Greiter, Charles
Kahn, Phyllis
Lamour, Henry
Schluger, Charlotte

BOOSIN—Kathryn W.
Lifetime friend and devoted
wife of Kenny. The loving
mother to Karyn Boosin Leit
and David Leit, Greg Boosin
and Dara Webster. Adored
Grammy to Benjamin and
MargeryLeit,Maizyand
Tess Boosin. Cherished sister
to Connie and Don Stapleton,
Jody and Livi Wiener. If you
wish to honor Kathy's memo-
ry with a donation:
michaeljfox.org.

GIBSON—June
Noble Larkin.
The Wildlife Conservation So-
ciety mourns the death of
June Noble Larkin Gibson.
She will always be remem-
bered as a dedicated cham-
pion of conservation, educa-
tion and the arts. June and
her husband, Frank Yoakum
Larkin, a former WCS Trus-
tee, backed wildlife conserva-
tion efforts through their sup-
port of our mission at WCS,
including St. Catherines Island
Wildlife Survival Center off
the coast of Georgia. We ex-
tend condolences to her three
surviving sons: Noble Smith,
DavidSmithandJeremy
Smith, and to their families.

GLASER—Milton.
The Cooper Union mourns
the passing of Milton Glaser,
Trustee Emeritus, former
faculty member, and a 1951
graduate of Cooper's School
of Art. Mr. Glaser, with sever-
al of his Cooper classmates,
co-founded Pushpin Studios,
a graphic design studio that
helpeddefinethemodern
era, before setting out on his
own. Aprolific designer,
known for his iconic
“I [Heart] NY” logo, he in-
fluenced and educated gener-
ationsof designers in the
practiceofgraphicdesign
and its ability to effect posi-
tive social change. A gene-
rous donor and recipient of
the President's Citation, we
are grateful to Mr. Glaser for
his commitment to education
and his countless campaigns
to raise awareness for huma-
nitarian issues. Our condolen-
ces go to his wife,
Shirley Glaser, a 1956 alumna
of Cooper's School of Art. The
schoolwillholdavirtual
event to honor his life later
this summer.
Rachel L. Warren,
Board Chair and
Laura Sparks,
President

GREITER—Charles Louis,

of Briarcliff Manor, NY,
passed from this life on June
9, 2020 in Marlborough, MA
from COVID pneumonia.
Born in the Bronx on Novem-
ber6, 1929 toLouisand
Florence (Letty) Greiter,
Charlie graduated from Man-
hattan College. After serving
as an Army Central Intel-
ligence Agent, he received a
JD from Fordham University
and LLM from New York
University. He was preceded
in death by his parents, his
brother, Donald, and his be-
loved wife of 53 years, Mary
Jeanne (nee Bantle) Greiter.
In addition to a career as Se-
nior Trademark Counsel at

the RCA Corporation, he was
a member of the St. There-
sa's Parish Council and Fi-
nanceCommittee,chaired
the Town of Ossining Zoning-
Board of Appeals, and trav-
eled the world with his wife.
Charlielived in Briarcliff
Manor for fifty years before
movingto Massachusetts.
Charles is survived by five
children: William of Verona,
WI; Jeanne Fine of Holiday,
FL; Peggy Neill of Carrollton,
TX; Charles “Chip” (and Sue)
of Celebration, FL; and Mary
Beth Miotto (and Peter) of
Northborough,MA,twelve
grandchildren and six great-
grandchildren. AMassof

Christian Burial was held at
the Parish of St. Theresa in
Briarcliff on June 15th and he
was laid to rest at Gate of
Heaven Cemetery in Haw-
thorne. Remembrances may
be made to the Alzheimer's
Association.

KAHN—Phyllis R. (Smith).
Died peacefully in her sleep
on June 28, 2020. Phyllis was a
longtime resident of Harri-
son, New York; St. Thomas,
V.I.; and Rye, New York. She
was born on July 7, 1925, the
daughter of the late Joseph
andEttaSmith. Wifeof
Wilfred R. Kahn and partner
of William Mills. Mother of
Pam Bernstein Friedman

(George Friedman) and Jo-
nathanKahn (KayHuff).
Grandmother of Andrew
(Whitney Frick) and Joshua
Bernstein, and step -
grandmother of Eric Fried-
man. Great-grandmother of
Ellie and Gray Bernstein. Her
passion for food took her to
teaching gourmet cooking in
the Adult Education Program
in White Plains High School
and starting a private cook-
ing school in her home in Har-
rison, New York. She spent
her life traveling the world
and was happiest living on a
sailboatintheCaribbean.
Due to COVID-19, there will
be no funeral. Condolences
may be sent to
[email protected].
Shiva via Zoom - details by
e-mail.Thefamilythanks
River Walk and the Hebrew
Home in Riverdale for their
excellent care.
LAMOUR—Henry Michael,
Born May 12, 1934 in Manhat-
tantoHenryandLillian
passed away on June 23, 2020
peacefully at home in his be-
loved New York at the age of


  1. He is now at peace with
    his cherished wife of 55 years,
    Grace who preceded him in
    death in 2012 and his dear
    brother Roger who passed in

  2. He is survived by his


loving children, daughter Dr.
Jacqueline Lamour, son Hen-
ry F. and his wife Joanne La-
mour, daughter Tiffany and
her husband Edgar Nouss,
dearest grandchildrenAn-
drew, Victoria, Henry, Heath-
er, Te'a, and Tyler and be-
loved nieces, nephews, fami-
ly and friends. Henry will be
fondly remembered as a lov-
ing husband, father, grand-
father, uncle, brother-in-law
and friend. Graduate of St.
Lawrence University in New
York and Juris Doctor degree
recipient from Fordham Uni-
versity in Manhattan, Henry
will be remembered as a dis-
tinguishedtriallawyerfor
Con Edison for over two de-
cades, a US Army Colonel
and Airborne Ranger, Army
fixed wing and rotary wing
gunship aviator, Korean War
veteran, New York City Po-
lice Officer, collegiate athlete
and life teacher. We are so
blessed that you touched our
lives in all the beautiful ways
you did. The world is a better
place because of you. Our
loss is immeasurable. A visi-
tation will be held at Frank E.
Campbell Funeral Home,
1076 Madison Avenue, New
York, NY on Monday, June
29th from 4-6pm. Funeral ser-
vices will be held Tuesday,
June 30th at 10am at The

Church of St. Monica at 413
East 79th Street with inter-
ment to follow at Mount St.
Mary'sCemetery,Queens,
New York.
SCHLUGER—Charlotte.
She died peacefully at home
on Friday, June 26, 2020 at the
age of 89. She was the loving
wife of Joseph, mother of
Neil, Olga and James, moth-
er-in-law of Leona, Phil and
Rosemary, and grandmother
of Aaron, Ben, Julia, Joey,
Jenny, Martha, Adam, Han-
nah, Jack, and Daniel. She
was born in the Bronx and
graduated from City College
of New York. Early in her life
she worked as a teacher and
for many years was the Di-
rector of Education at the In-
ternational Council of Shop-
ping Centers. She loved litera-
ture and the arts. Her life was
marked by kindness towards
everyone she knew, and deep
and unconditional love for
her entire family. We are
grateful for the long life that
she lived and for the warmth
and comfort she gave us al-
ways. A private funeral will
be held June 28 in Alford,
Massachusetts. Donations in
her memory may be made to
the Central Park Conservan-
cy or the Berkshires Natural
Resources Council.

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