ITCANBESUPERANNOYINGwhenyou
constantlywatchwhatyoueatinordertolose
weightwhileyourpartnermanagestostay
slimdespiteeatingvastamounts, including
loadsofchocolateandcrisps.
FOODFIXTheymaybeabletogetaway
withit now,buttherewillprobablybea time
whentheirwaistlinestartstoexpand,too.
Andevenif they’reslim,overloadingon
fat,sugarandsaltmeanstheymaynot
behealthyontheinside.Eatingwellwill
benefitbothofyou,sosticktoyourguns
andcontinuemakingnutritiousmeals.
Meanwhile,if you’restrugglingwithyour
weight,takea portion-sizerealitycheck.
Menneedaround20%morecalorieseach
daythanwomenduetotheirbiggerbody
sizeandhigherproportionofmuscle,so
aimtoreflectthatintheamountoffoodon
yourplates.Inparticular,givemenbigger
portionsofstarchy,fibre-packedcarbsand
leanproteintofillthemup.Finally,is there
anythingyoucanlearnfromyourslender
partner?Chancesareif they’reeatinga lot
offoodwithoutgainingweight,theymay
befarmoreactivethanyou.If so,consider
joining them when they work out.
COELIACDISEASEaffects
aroundonepersoninevery
100,andtheonlytreatment
is tofollowa gluten-freediet
forlife.Thatcanbe hard for
bothpartners.
FOODFIXFortunately,
therearestacksofgluten-
freeproductsavailablethat
makeit easyforyoutoenjoy
foodssuchasbreadand
pasta,whileyourpartner
continuesmunchingregular
products.Keepbread
separateandusedifferent
boardsandknivesforthe
loavestoavoidcross
contamination.Cookregular
andgluten-freepastain
separatepansinbulk,then
freezeinindividualportions
soyouwon’talwayshaveto
preparetwolots– andmake
sureyoulabelcontainers.
Foringredientssuchasflour,
stockcubesandgravy,
considerusinggluten-free
productsforallyourmeals
(findourrecommendations
onp32).Somemaycosta
littlemore,butit willmean
youdon’tneedtocook
separatedishes.Ofcourse,
youcanbothenjoymore
gluten-freecarbssuchasrice,
potatoes,polenta,quinoa
andbuckwheatinyourdiets.
Andremember,biscuits,
cakes,muffinsandpastries
arehighincalories,fatand
sugar,regardlessofwhether
they’regluten-freeornot,so
you should both limit these.
FOODFEUD#12
He’saMasterChef
- you’remore
Ready, Steady, Cook
Everytimehecooks,
you’refacedwith
a calorie-packed,
fat-ladenmeal– and
a hugemesstoclear
up.Youwhipupmeals
in 20 minutesusing
fiveingredients,buthe
complainsthey’redull!
FOODFIXMenlovea
challenge,soexplain
thatyouwanttoeat
healthilyandaskfor
hishelp.Beforeyou
knowit,he’llbe
researchinghealthier
recipesandlower-fat
ingredients.Toexpand
yourownrepertoire,
visithealthyfood.co.uk
tofinda widerange
of speedy suppers.
FOODFEUD#10
They’re in great
shape and can
eat anything; you
constantly battle
with your weight
FOODFEUD#11
You’re
gluten free,
they aren’t
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