The New York Times - USA (2020-10-25)

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SUNDAY, OCTOBER 25, 2020
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LIFESTYLE RELATIONSHIPS SOCIETY


4 POWER WARDROBE


For superheroes, evolving


attire. BY GEORGE GENE GUSTINES


2 SEASON’S GRIMACING


Decorations filled with anxiety


and nihilism. BY DINA GACHMAN


6 MODERN LOVE

Not seeking a relationship.


Then... BY GREGORY WALTERS


12 MARRIED IN PRISON

A law student and an inmate,


united. BY JENNY BLOCK


The wind was whipping around a makeshift
outdoor SoulCycle studio at Hudson Yards
in Manhattan the other day, but the fashion
designer Michelle Smith pulled off her “Le-
galize Equality” sweatshirt, baring toned
limbs. She was hot. For the second time that
day, she was front row and center in a spin
class taught by her girlfriend, the platinum-
haired star instructor Stacey Griffith.


“You are the pebble, you are the water,
you are the ripple,” Ms. Griffith said into a
headset, as tourists gawked and snapped
pictures and Ms. Smith pedaled diligently.
The power couple had more glamorous
outings before the pandemic — holding
hands leaping into the water on the Côte
d’Azur in France last fall, posing for bikini-
clad selfies on the beach of St. Barts in Feb-
ruary. But an exercise session in a troubled
mall was paradise compared with what Ms.

Smith was going through 18 months ago at a
corporate office in Midtown.
It was April 2019, and some 20 or so men
were bidding for Milly, the contemporary
fashion line known for brightly colored,
boldly patterned dresses that she had built
with Andrew Oshrin, whom she married in
2003 and separated from in 2017.
Carried in Barneys, Saks Fifth Avenue
and Bloomingdale’s, Milly had a flagship
boutique on Madison Avenue. The brand

was a favorite of Jennifer Lopez, Mika
Brzezinski and Michelle Obama, who wore
a white stretch cotton poplin maxi sundress
with a print that conjured the quilts of Gee’s
Bend for her official portrait, by the artist
Amy Sherald.
But even as the portrait was unveiled in
February 2018, showering favor on the de-
signer and the brand, Milly was in trouble.
In its heyday, Milly had generated

Breaking Free of Milly


The successful


clothing brand that


Michelle Smith built


became a ‘crazy


carousel’ she is happy


to leave behind.


New horizons: Michelle Smith
has ditched the print and frou of
Milly for the minimalism of her
new self-named line.

By KATHERINE ROSMAN

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SIMBARASHE CHA FOR THE NEW YORK TIMES

Connor Robinson, a 17-year-old British Tik-
Tok star with rosy cheeks and a budding six-
pack, has built a large following by keeping
his fans thirsty. Between the daily drip of
shirtless dance routines and skits about his
floppy hair, Mr. Robinson posts sexually
suggestive curve balls that, he said, “break
some barriers.”
In an eight-second video set to a lewd hip-
hop track by the Weeknd, he and a fellow
teenage boy, Elijah Finney who calls him-
self Elijah Elliot, filmed themselves in a

London hotel room, grinding against each
other as if they’re about to engage in a
make-out session. The video ends with Mr.
Robinson pushed against the tiled wall.
But as racy as the video is, fans are under
no pretense that the two are in the throes of
gay puppy love. Mr. Robinson and Mr.
Finney identify as heterosexual, but as
some TikTok influencers have discovered,
man-on-man action is a surefire way to gen-
erate traffic. Uploaded in February, the vid-
eo has gotten more than 2.2 million views
and 31,000 comments (lots of fire and heart
emoji).
“Normally, I do jokey dance videos and
stuff like that, but it seems like things have
kind of changed now,” Mr. Robinson said
from his bedroom in Cumbria, England,
which is painted forest green to stand out on
TikTok. He estimates that 90 percent of his
nearly one million followers are female.
“Girls are attracted to two attractive guy

Gay? No. ‘Homiesexual.’


Straight young men are


posting suggestive videos with


their buddies on TikTok.


By ALEX HAWGOOD

Foster Van Lear, a 16-year-old
TikTok personality from Atlanta who
has posted kissing videos. CONTINUED ON PAGE 10
DEVIN OKTAR YALKIN FOR THE NEW YORK TIMES

Some high-rent tenants in the Hamptons


are refusing to pay or leave, invoking state


pandemic protections. Page 7.


The Talk of Montauk


PAT O’MALLEY FOR THE NEW YORK TIMES

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