THE PLAN
Florence then suggests I tell someone in my life I’m
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still smoking, they’re not going to be thrilled you’re
leaving the pack (couldn’t resist, sorry).
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that bio-based humans don’t possess, such as machine-
learning-based communication tools, 24/7 availability,
and zero ego or competitive zeal.
Which is why, as I found out when I interacted with
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because there’s no loss of face. That’s vitally important
with certain cultures averse to showing vulnerability
and/or seeking professional help.
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came up with:
- Remove all tobacco products from your
environment. - Tell someone you’re committed to quit.
- Expect withdrawal symptoms but know that a
smoke-free future increases long-term health
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again.”
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Then it got worse. “Would you like a toll-free tobacco
quit line?” said Florence.
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Of course, I feel
instantly
validated by
this classic
reinforcement-
based
response, but
that’s why this
stuff works.