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Body Language Hacks


The way you hold yourself affects


how others perceive you and how you


perceive yourself. Here’s how to use


body language to everyone’s benefit.


Change How You Feel


To de-stress: Forcing a smile can make


running easier and tough tasks less


stressful. One 2012 experiment found


that a grin makes holding your hand in


ice water more bearable.


To feel more confident: Standing like


Wonder Woman — legs apart, hands


on hips, chest up — may make you feel


more powerful. Striking this so-called


power pose shortly before an interview


or athletic contest can be particularly
powerful for women, who tend to sit and

stand in a way that takes up less space.


(The initial study supporting these


claims sparked debate, however. See


“Picking Apart Power Poses” at right.)


To persevere: Crossing your arms


across your chest can help you persist


in solving a problem. In a 2008 study,


students who sat with their arms


crossed kept working on an impossible


problem nearly twice as long as those


with their arms at their sides.


Change How Others Feel


To come across as sincere: Studies


show that holding someone’s gaze may


help people think you’re trustworthy


and intelligent. According to body


language expert Carol Kinsey Goman,
it can also make people think you’re

a good listener.


To foster connections: Mirroring the


facial expressions and gestures of


the person you’re talking to can help


them feel more comfortable. One 2011


experiment found this is an effective


sales tactic.


To engage or disengage: If you want to


let someone know you’re listening, sit


facing them with your full body, knees


and shoulders pointed at them. But if


you want to diffuse tension, angle


your body slightly away — facing


full-on is confrontational


when things get heated.


The Birds and the Bees


Humans aren’t the only gesticulators. Other species use their bodies to


communicate all sorts of information. Here are just a few.


BEES


Honeybees dance to show their hive mates where good flowers are. The angle


and duration of their so-called "waggle dance" conveys the direction and


distance to food sources.


FISH


Coral reef groupers repeatedly shimmy their bodies to encourage their hunting


partners — eels and other fish — to help them search for prey. If a quarry escapes


a grouper, it will shake its head while doing a headstand to reveal the hiding


place to a partner better equipped to reach in and snag dinner. Trout have also


been seen performing the headstand behavior with octopus partners.


RAVENS


Ravens use their beaks to show and offer objects like moss and twigs to


potential mates. The gesture may be similar to infants who point to or show


parents objects; sharing interest strengthens an existing relationship and,


for the birds, may encourage a newfound partnership.


JULY/AUGUST 2019. DISCOVER 33


Picking


Apart Power


Poses


In 2010, Harvard University psychologist Amy


Cuddy published a study claiming that when


participants sat with their feet up on a desk or stood


tall leaning over a table, they felt more powerful. The


two “power poses” also boosted levels of the dominance


hormone testosterone while decreasing levels of the


stress hormone cortisol.


The paper came under scrutiny in 2014, when


other teams couldn’t replicate some results — namely the


hormonal changes. Psychologists also questioned how


Cuddy and her team had analyzed the data. Some argued


the statistical methods, though common at the time,


let the team cherry-pick data to fit their hypothesis.


But in a recent paper, Cuddy says the findings


about feelings of power hold up, even in
Power more rigorous scientific tests.
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