and “telling.”
And the one place where love blossoms – our hearts – is a place we’ve all been taught to
avoid like the plague, because we’ve been taught to avoid and hide our emotions:
- We’ve been told to “think through” our problems and “get over it” whenever we’re
overwhelmed with emotion - We’ve been told to avoid conflict, rise above our passionate feelings, and stay calm and
cool
But it’s through our heart and our emotions that true connection can actually take place
with another human being.
A man will feel connected with you because he’ll feel safe to experience and express his
emotions, because you’re comfortable experiencing and expressing yours.
Using Your Feelings To Connect With His Heart
As a woman, you have the unique ability to access and express your emotions, which is the
single best way for you to connect with a man where it counts... his heart.
In this book, you’ll learn to use your feelings to make a man feel safe and turned on. You’ll
learn why your feelings matter, how to know what it is you’re feeling (versus just thinking),
and then how to express those feelings in a way that’s magnetic and increases intimacy and
trust. As you do this, you’ll be able to connect with his heart. He’ll feel he’s finally “home”
with you.
Here’s an important extra bonus: If you’re not used to this way of relating with a man,
you’ll very likely experience scary feelings of vulnerability when you use the Tools in this
book. You’ll feel exposed and not in control of the situation.
That’s actually a good thing! Because when you use these Tools, another unexpected
benefit will show up. Your confidence and self-esteem will rise up to a level you never
thought possible, because you’ll be and feel more authentic and more “yourself” than ever
before.
You’ll see that the “control” you were feeling before was a false sense of control, and you’ll
“get” (in a series of “a-ha” moments) that vulnerability is critical for you. It’s essential to your
creating a deeply intimate and loving relationship – with anyone, not just a man.
This book is about turning your love life around. And this means completely reversing
everything you’ve been doing up to now that hasn’t been working. But it doesn’t mean you’ll
have to do a lot of work, or that it’s going to require you to pretend and playact.
In fact, small, simple shifts in the words you choose and your body language is all it takes