Arrivingontimeforreservationsor
appointmentsis ofutmostimportance.
If you’repronetotardiness,it’sa good
ideatoturnupearlybutonlyenterat
thearrangedtime.If it’sa workmeeting,
have business cards at the ready.
THE BASICS
Whetheryou’reenteringa private
residence,temple,restaurantoranywhere
withtatami(strawentrancemats),be
preparedtoremoveyourfootwear,leaving
shoessafein a vestibuleknownasthe
genkan.Don’tbesurprisedif yourshoes
areneatlypointedtowardstheexit
for a streamlined departure.
Slippersareprovidedforcomfortbut
besuretoswapthemfortoiletslippers
whenusingthefacilities.Avoidwearing
sockswithholes.Infact,consideryour
entiretravelwardrobewhenpacking
- the Japanese are smart dressers.
Whencallingonfriendsorcolleagues,
it’stypicaltopresentthemwitha gift.
Beautifullywrappedfoodsuchasa tinof
biscuitsorwagashi(traditionalteasweets)
areideal.Depachika(department-storefood
halls)aresetupforsuchoccasionsand
packagingis stunningin everyway;
recycling efforts are equally impressive.
Insteadofshakinghands,keepthem
byyoursidesandbowfromthewaist.
Sticktoa 30-degreeangleunlessthe
situation’sformalbutanylowerthana
45-degreetiltmightreadassarcasm.
If confused, a slow nod will suffice.
Thelawpreventingmembersofthe
ink-linkedyakuzafromenteringonsen
(bathhouses)is thereasonyou’lllikely
beturnedawayforanyhintoftattoos.
However,casebycase,rulesaresoftening
forforeignersandclevercover-ups
withmedicalplastersorwaterproof
theatrical foundation can help.➤
GOURMET TRAVELLER 61
ILLUSTRATIONS MELISSA MARTIN.