Find out each other’s favorite artists and attend a
concert together.
Release your inner kid and spend an evening playing
games at an arcade.
Have a few “firsts” together—go horseback riding
together, or hit up a batting cage, or fall all over each
other at the ice skating rink.
Volunteer together—help out at a local soup kitchen
or read books to kids at a local foster home; you can
tell a lot about a man who’s willing to help others.
Rent a convertible and get lost cruising in your city;
you’ll have plenty of time to talk on a long drive.
Find a quiet place where you can watch the sunset
together.
Play a board game.
Go for a long walk under a starlit sky.
Send each other naughty e-mails, so he can be sure
that when he does get it, it’s going to be good. (And
you can make sure he’s literate while you’re at it.)