If you’re calling to say, “I have a special surprise for
you when you get home,” that’s a good interruption.
But if it’s a phone call to talk about petty problems?
Not a good interruption. Just because you feel like say-
ing something right now this minute doesn’t mean it
should be said.
Once a man gives his answer to whatever ques-
tion you’re asking (or he thinks he heard, even if you
never asked one), he’s probably not listening to you
anymore. Your cue is when he gives an answer. As far
as he’s concerned, his solution will fix whatever it is
you’re talking about, and if you’re still talking after
that, he’s not listening anymore.